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writes:Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prove that my ex still loves me (cos i still love her)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): YES obviously, and she'd absoloutely hate you afterwards, i think you may have been getting your ideas from Eastenders!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): yes.thats all i can say, you clearly DONT love her if your willing to put her through that pain.however, i have thought about how people would react if i died, but i would NEVER actually try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Well if you really want to fake your own death their are ways that you can do it, without any help from anybody or you could go into hiding for a couple of weeks, make sure a run gets out that your dead and nobody has seen you in weeks, them you will be fine in your pretend death.....
..... Them as you come out of your hiding place, be warm that most people family and friends may go off at you,
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Sorry, but it is the worst idea I have ever heard!
If this is a genuine post...you need to get professional help asap!
I had a friend who faked her own rape! Involved the police and everything! She wanted to make her husband feel bad for fighting with her...it backfired, the police new right away that it was bs, and told her husband so. The relationship ended. (Husband walked out)
Deceit and lies only cause problems! You can't solve problems by causing MORE problems!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (17 April 2009):
 If this is a real post then i think you need to seek proffessional help because the fact that this thought has even popped into your head makes me think you make have some kind of mental health problem. Suicide is no laughing matter and even joking about it or pretending to do it is very sick.
This is a site for real problems all the aunts and uncles do this to help others and offer advice we do it in our own time and we do it because we genuinly feel we can help. So please feel free to come back when you actually have a problem and stop wasting our time
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Yeah thanks for that! You tool! How in anyway have any of you guys believed this?
So come on, entertain us, how are you going to "Fake" your own death? Gunshot wound to the head? Hanging, pills? (you can't do sudden disappearance nobody will believe you) oh maybe you could take that poison that simulates death (Romeo and Juliet)
Who's going to find your body?
What about your family?
What about funeral arrangements?
When are you going to resurrect and say it was all a fake?
And at what point will the police become involved?
I get the feeling that 1, this is a stupid fake post or 2, you are an over dramatic idiot!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 April 2009):
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Seriously?
You are seriously thinking about this?
It's illegal to start with. Everyone you know will think you are an UTTER TWAT for doing something as you just don't joke with people's emotions like that.
If you want to lose all your friends and alienate everyone just to be mean to some poor girl then really... look at yourself and ask if you really are that pathetic. I hope you are not.
Get a life.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Well you've got a funny way of showing it. Faking your own death - have you no consideration for anyone but yourself? If I were either of these women I would dump you.
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reader, pebble +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Maybe she's just trying to get her 'best friend' to dump you because your a bit of an a** who got with her best mate after dating her. Even though you apparently still love your ex.
Do you enjoy destroying friendships?
If she's got any sense then she's just trying to protect her friend. And maybe, you should get over yourself.
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reader, audie  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 just go up to her and tell her how u feel, see if she feels the same. faking your own death is a big HELL NO from me.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (17 April 2009):
 yeah duuude totally wrongi mean how can you fake your own death?seriously?you'd have to get like EVERYONE involved in it to go along with it and what if shes you out?don't fake your own death just confront her or somethingi mean she probably still does seeing as she wants your current girlfriend to end it with you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Of course it is wrong. Emotional blackmail is always wrong.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (17 April 2009):
 God yes it's wrong. Please don't do that. When she figures out the truth she will think you're nuts. That will be worse than being dead. And trust me, even if she's sad for a moment, she'll be furious for much longer. And I'm kind of superstitions about things like that. When I was in highschool, a new guy told all the girls he had leukemia. Everyone believed him, and he had an amazing number of sympathetic chicks doting over him for a few months, until we all figured out it was a scam. Turns out later in life, he ended up having cancer. It's not worth the risk of your good karma. You should find other ways to learn how she feels about you. Like, asking her point blank.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 yes thats wrong. obviously your ex still haves feelings for you if sues trying to get yoir gf to break up with you.
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