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Don't want this meeting to end in the "friend zone"

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Question - (5 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *igMac92 writes:

Hello my question is how do i stop getting stuck in the friend zone with every female i meet? I have been talking to this girl over text and im meeting her tomorrow, i would love to be more then friends but not sure how to make her aware of my intensions before im in the friend zone.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

xanthic agony auntI agree with trancedrhythmear, except complimenting her body will make it seem like you're only after one thing. For most women, this is a guaranteed way to put yourself in the friend zone when done too soon. That doesn't mean you shouldn't compliment her, though. As long as you make it clear you're interested in being more than friends, and as long as she's interested as well, you won't end up in the friend zone.

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A male reader, Helper455678 United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

Well see if you have a lot in common and thensee where things go from there. I've had the same problems with the frIend zone but I just found ways to get closer to them and get more comfertable talking with them by finding things in common.

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A male reader, Helper455678 United States +, writes (5 January 2011):

Well see if you have a lot in common and thensee where things go from there. I've had the same problems with the frIend zone but I just found ways to get closer to them and get more comfertable talking with them by finding things in common.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011):

Show her that youre interested in her beyond friends. Ask her her views on dating. Like, does she like relationships? Ask her about things she looks for in men when dating? Also, compliment her body. Smile. Give her body language man, women love that and that is a key indicator of interest believe it or not. Show her that youre thinking about this and thatll step things above normal conversation that friends wouldnt normally have. Good luck.

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