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writes:My boyfriend and I are together for 11 months now... and next month will be our first year anniversary together.He is a very boring person and hardly surprise me with things. AND HE NEVER GIVES ME FLOWERS BEFORE....I am pretty bothered by that fact. Guys does it means that the girl is not important to him because he never give her flowers before?I know last time my bf did chase a girl and gave her flowers but was rejected after that. But he never give me any flowers before...I feel bothered how can I tell him coz I have hint him before already...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply~~ =) I will hint him next time
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Flowers...I have a red rose on my desk, my wife brought it for me yesterday...I have a red and a salmon/white rose in the other room on my other desk...same...I have several at home...same. She gets them for me every week.
I planted flowers in the garden with her, in the summer we are surrounded by them. In the winter we buy them.
Point is, I like flowers.
My wife knows that and buys them for me, as I do for her.
If you like them, tell him you like them, AND buy flowers for him. If he still doesn't buy you flowers, and has money to do so, then you got a problem.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Flowers are stupid. I really don't see the point in them.
They look pretty at first, then after a few days they shrivel up and die on the kitchen counter making a big mess.
As far as being symbolic of love, surely I can't be the only one who sees the irony in withering flowers.
Now tacky plastic flowers on the other hand... ;)
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Flowers are so cliché that many men are afraid to give them lest they be thought of as uncreative. (I know some women that even respond by asking what he must have done wrong to prompt the gift.) And given that his last girlfriend refused flowers outright, he's just learned that it's better not to risk it.
Have you ever told him that you'd like some or consider it romantic to receive roses? He doesn't sound uninterested, just like he's playing it safe.
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