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writes:Hello everyone, my question is mainly for men. What does it mean when a man ignores his ex's question? (broke up with 2 months back) When she asks him if he's seeing someone, knowing that she's travelling to see him where he lives Does it mean he has someone in his life?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 January 2011):
It usually means that he's moved on and it's none of your business. If he's an ex, you'd be better leaving him in the past where he belongs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your advices, i would like to add that we ended it on a huge fight and were extremely in love, but we were on constatnt touch and he knew i was going there and invited me to dinner! just to clarify that he ignores some my texts and replies to specific ones! but still tell me and share with me his secrets! i asked him if he had someone cause i didn't want surprises on that dinner and upseting news! he ignored!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 It really counld mean anything. He could have someone and not want to upset you or he wants to give the illusion that he is doing better than he actually is. Personally I wouldn't answer a question like that from an ex unless they were still a really close friend because there would be no point seeing any drama come out of the ex finding out.
It sounds to me like he wants you to know as little as possible because he doesn't want you to have any say in his life. I know that it is a curiosity thing but I don't quite understand why you would want to know in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): It means we don't want to blow our chances of having sex with you if we tell the truth but don't feel like we are lying if we don't answer or keep it vague. We are hoping you'll be gullible enough to think it leads to something more without pinning us down for a straight answer or asking us what it will mean.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 January 2011):
 It means that it's really none of your business. Why are you going to see your ex? That's usually bad news.
It could mean he has found someone, but it could mean he hasn't. I could see reasons to avoid that question for both cases. Pride, shame, and anger are just a few.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Because he still wants to get you into bed and doesn't want to cock block himself. Whether he has someone else or not is irrelevant.
If he does..... telling you ends the prospect of sex.
If he doesn't he maintains the illusion of some mystery that keeps you intrigued.
It's a no lose situation for him as long as you think he is hiding something.
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reader, Itsjustflirting +, writes (4 January 2011):
 It means obviously you are broken up, so why should it even matter to you? If I break up with a girl, I move on. If she breaks up with me, I REALLY move on. I wouldn't tell her anything about what I do. She either loses that privelege by breaking up with me or whatever she did to cause me breaking up with her. Either way, I move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Some guys (and gals to I'm sure) have no interest in talking or staying in touch with an ex. If he's not answering, maybe it's because he doesn't want you to know he's moved on in his life.
Besides, it doesn't sound like you want to get back with him. So why are you traveling to see him? Unless you're looking to get back together with him, he might consider the question of his current relationship status irrelevant to you.
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