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writes:its really a long story but im gonna make it shortso i have a crush on a guy for almost a year and were both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he likes mea month ago he sat next to me in class (it wasnt by accident) so i felt so nervous and i was blushing and couldnt say a word and we both were so uncomfortable (even though i always dreamed of this moment but i dont know i just felt scared and i thought im gonna make a fool of myself if he talked to me)and to make it worse i just sat somewhere else when the lecture was over and now hes avoiding me and i really feel so bad about it coz if i were him i think i would be really hurt and especially that he doesnt really talk to lot of girls ...so im sure it took him a lot of courage to do it then i acted like that and i really like him i mean hes almost perfect but i dont know i just feel really nervous when i see him passing by and i feel like i can barely breathe and i really wish if he knows how i feel about him(he doesnt know that i like him coz i never really done anything to show him that i like him)so GUYS do you think i hurt him and if yes then how can i make it right?and why do i feel that nervous when he's around ?please help me with that coz i like him so much and dont wanna lose him and i cant stop thinking about what i could've done at that moment and it really makes me cry knowing that i hurt him coz hes really a good guy and deserves better so ......appreciate any advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): i feel the same way about a girl in my school /: I have a huge crush on her but i cant work up the nerve to go talk to her but i really do like her. I think you should say "hey" to him next time you see him and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): How do you know what he thinks, feels, intends so well when you haven't ever spoken to him? Maybe you should try talking to him and you might find this was all in your imagination and stir up an interest in you he may have not had before.
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