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I went to a party with my crush and he ended in bed with my best mate!

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Question - (30 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *allen angel 92 writes:

So just over a year ago I met this guy and we got along

Really really well and things wer're going well. We had a

Lot in common and he made me smile. He then invited me

To a party he was having, knowing that I wouldn't know anyone

There I asked my best mate to come along for support. Long

Story short they ended up in bed together and the dating. I was

Devistated I couldn't believe she would do that to me (she knew how I felt about him) eventually I forgave her when I saw how happy they we're together but I still loved him.

A year later and I thought I was getting over him and me and my friend were getting on but the other night I got drunk and ended up getting intimate with him( we didn't actually have sex). He's told me he didn't regret it and I can't bring myself to regret it either. But now I don't know what to do as wrong as it is I love him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011):

Wow, this guy has the nest of both worlds doesn't he? He knows you like him so he made a move and you accepted graciously because you somewhere inside feel you should be with him. So ask yourself what is more important your friendship or having sex with this guy..because it will happen. So he doesn't regret it, that means he doesn't regret hurting your friend either, and neither do you. Someone will get hurt eventually if you continue this, but that's up to you, so good luck to you.

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