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writes:Hey all,So here's the deal i've been in a relationship a little over year. We live a little farther apart than usually. Things were really good and still are for the most part. However it hit a little ruff spot a couple of months ago with alcohol and my girlfriend. She didn't cheat but just lets say lost alot of her self control. And did admit it. Before this she would go out a lot and I would be perfectly okay with it. After this it just seems like I get a little paranoid waiting to see everything is okay. I know it prolly is but just feels like I put add little stress where it doesn't need to be. I know a little worrying is good, but i never used to have a problem. It seems like she is the one having the fun. She knows it bothered me. I know I may be in the working stage of my life and she is in the college age of her life. How can I get over this? I mean I recognize that she is her own person. I mean should i try to detach from her when she drinks. I really don't want this experience hinder me with her or in future relationships. Has anyone else had a issue like this? Please offer advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (30 January 2011):
She has the right to enjoy life. You have the right to sleep well. Ask her to change her behaviour for good. If she doesn't want to. She may not be the right girl for you.
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