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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been on only 2 dates with a great guy. We get on alarmingly well and he has told me he finds me very attractive, that he thinks I am lovely and he even said sometimes he finds my eyes so amazing, he has to look away! Obviously I am aware it's very very early days but I need some help in keeping calm during this early dating period. Trouble is, like many others I have become cynical owing to past experiences. We went out last Saturday and by Sunday morning when he texted, we had our next date arranged for the Friday just gone. I thought this was great and had never had someone be that keen before. So Friday went well and he made several references to us meeting up again and even said that he wanted a family and marriage etc during our conversations. However, he has texted since and he called this evening but did not mention another date, instead making reference to his busy week. In fairness, he did tell me about several things genus doing this week but I also know he is free in Friday. I realise I am seeming like a psycho but my questions are: am I going to see him again or is he trying to give me subtle hints? And how do I stop myself from going crazy in the mean time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Thanks both for your answers. I wasn't talking about marriage, just to clarify, he mentioned it as part of a wider conversation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): It is very early days, only two dates. I would wait and see what happens. Do not, whatever you do, contact him - wait. It will drive you crazy, there is nothing you can do about that. But just take it is, relax. If it's meant to be it will happen.
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