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Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

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Question - (29 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *alyov writes:

How to "Spice" it up?

My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things.

He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one.

Well we are kind of out of ideas.

We tried the whole Breast thing, where your squeeze them together, but he was not long enough to do so.

So really I have no idea who to make things more interesting.

I suggested changing locations, like to the shower.

But we will see on that one...any body have any other ideas?

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A male reader, dannn United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2011):

Have sex! Waiting isn't worth it. If not, you could blindfold each other and touch each other. Try out some BDSM (doesn't have to be whips and chains) but a little rope play and such. Sounds freaky but you'd be surprised at how fun it can be.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2011):

Blonde68 agony aunt

What about some role playing? I find this rather a turn on.. you could dress as a secretary, or he could turn up to the house as a salesman and seduces you. What about you dressing up prior to him arriving home... just leave him a note for when he is due home saying come upstairs.. another one I quite like is similar to the above, but no words are exchanged.. you may still be doing the same sexual things to each other, but its the build up prior that can really arouse you and make the sexual experience itself mind blowing.

What about incorporating toys, or food to your sex life. You could cover his manhood in squirty cream or melted chocolate and slowly lick it off... the list of things is endless believe me.

Good luck and have fun!

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A female reader, missm83 United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

missm83 agony auntYou can make a video of one another masturbating for each other..or giving each other oral.. and anal is a great idea!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

Give him a blow job with a mouth full of ice cubes whilst hummimg the national anthem.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

Try anal. Its not full on intercourse, but it can be satisfying for both of you

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