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writes:ok, one of my best friends knew my new girlfriend before me and they liked eachother but didnt get togetherwhen she asked him out he already had a girlfriend but he offered to break it off to be with HER!!!then she meets me and says she likes me etc and i love her ALOT. she said she still has feelings for the guy she liked and found out that was my friend from someone elsenooow i find out they talked (probably still do) everyday and used to webcam with eachother and shes never even once asked or even mentioned it with usi actually have nightmares about them both going behind my back and it infuriates me to the edgealso at first we were both sweet gushy and romantic but now it seems she stopped completelyand i keep thinking she wants to be with me just because she wants a boyfriend, not want me as her boyfriendim trying my bloody hardest for a long distance relationship here and im a really nice guy, seriously, im never rude to women, im always polite, and i give her anything she wants and more but i cant seem to satisfy hernot to mention shes always saying how depressed and stressed she is and it makes me sad because i try and help her but nothing goes through and im always thinking and sometimes say to her that i dont get upset or down as much anymore because i have this wonderful, beautiful girlfriendalso i think shes not at all attracted to mei love her, she like LIKES me (since she never replies i love you too over message online on texts) and i dont want to loose her :'(what the hell do i doim literally trembling with rage and fear and im afraid i might hurt someone innocent physically by mistake
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reader, hcnNeedsHelp +, writes (8 February 2011):
hcnNeedsHelp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, I THOUGHT everything was sorted, but it's over between us. She ended it. I still love her, but she looks to me as a friend. She always did now I think about it, instead of see me in particular, she'd rather see all her closest friends (including me). My first girlfriend, and I f*cked it all up. All the things I was worried about, the things I thought were trivial, but she didn't, and vice versa.I honestly don't know what to do anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2011):
I do think you are second best, and given that you're in an LDR, it's best to end it and move on now.
You're a nice guy. So save it for a woman who isn't so far away and will actually commit. Don't waste time playing second best.
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