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writes:me and my ex were together for 2 years and broke up bout 3 months ago. she wanted to get back together and i didnt want to and she said she would wait to work things out. then she get another boyfriend which made me jealous. so i wanted to get back with her. since we been broken up and she been with him we been fightn alot. she said we cant be friends which really kills me czuse i love her to death. she tells everyone that shes over me and doesnt care about me. but she told my friend she wants to get back together with me she just doesnt wana get hurt. she says shes really happy with her new boyfriend but everyone says she isnt and that their relationship seems fake. but she tells me its not and that she is happy. i know in my heart that we belong together. how can i get her to know it to? what should i do? is it possible to get her back? how can i show her that we belong together?
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reader, heartbroken16 +, writes (30 October 2009):
heartbroken16 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice everyone
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reader, Y_Java  +, writes (29 October 2009):
I wouldnt take on board what other people have said it'll only cause more confusion than there is already, you need to talk to her directly to see if there's anything between you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Hello, I think that Caring Guy is right because she has a boyfriend now and so she isn't free. You have to wait and be patient...try to be really nice to her friends and don't be upset if she's with her boyfriend ...it may work out but it may not... you just have to wait and see I think. Just be a really nice person and see if you can get to know her friends better so they can say nice things about you to her but don't be pushy coz she'll see through that and it will keep her from liking you back. All the best.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 October 2009):
She's telling everyone she's over you, she's not really talking to you and in fairness, you didn't want to get back until she got another boyfriend. This sounds like it's really not going to happen. At the end of it, she needs to split with her new boyfriend and show that she's still interested in you. Otherwise, she's not interested enough. You now have to wait for her.
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