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writes:Hey,Okay so two years ago my mum made this friend and it was just a coincidence that she had four kids two of which are the same ages of me and my sister (both boys).The moment i met my mum's friends son i was very attracted to him when i met him, we got to know eachother and had a lot in common but we were kind of young and things wer akward.. we had a little fling but they ended up moving back to where they came from ( about 4 hours drive from where i live ). Anyways about 6 months after i found him on facebook and we started talking again and he came back to where i live every once in a while and we would hang out and have a really good time. Things got better and he moved back here the beginning of this summer and we spent a lot of time together i would say we were a couple, but by this time i was very interested in someone else so it made me lose feelings for me so are little relationship ended on bad terms. Well a few days ago i went to stay with him and his family with my family also and things were really akward at first but they got better and we didn't end up doing anything just like hugging kissing talking about old times and he said how he had missed me. Now i am in a very crappy situation because as much as it was nice he was also a little weird with me and i cannot stop thinking about him i would really really like to be with him again. We text every now and then since i saw him but don't talk too much! Now i want to know should i let him know how i feel or leave it for a little bit and let him know?! I don't know what to do because i regret ending things and i think he is still angry at me for doing it!! Thankyou
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 October 2009):
You could ask to meet him and just say you'd really like to get to know him again. There isn't really a perfect time, you just have to be gentle when you suggest anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut when is the best time to let him know this?? i don't want to come on to strong also how should i tell him
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): I don't want to tell you what to do. But if you feel love, real love, you should tell. Maybe if you just make an effort to see him a few more times, remind him of how special you are, and it'll be clear to you what you should do or say. If you really love him, it's worth saying
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reader, Y_Java +, writes (29 October 2009):
Best thing you can do is talk to him tell him how you feel and find out how he feels about you...you wont know unless you ask
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 October 2009):
I think you've found what is wrong. He is probably very hurt at what happened last time and is very wary of what might happen this time. It would be a pity though, if it could go forward and it didn't. I think you should tell him how you feel, but tell him you understand if he wants to take it slow. Good luck
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