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writes: There is a girl that I have recently been introduced to and I am pretty sure that there is chemistry between us.I am basically a 26 year old adult that does not have much sexual experience. I have absolutely no idea what I am doing, I can't read signals, I can't send signals, I have no clue what I am doing.I have gone out with this girl everyday this week, each time saying to myself "today has to be the day, you have to make a move, otherwise you will blow it". But every time it is the same thing. My inept can carry on a conversation, make her laugh and have a good time. I need some help, but something original. All my friends say is that "you can't be afraid of rejection, you just have to make a move". However, I don't really feel that I am afraid of rejection, in fact, I am pretty sure that I would not be rejected. I simply don't know what to do or say to take it to the next level. What the am I supposed to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, tshxs  +, writes (29 October 2009):
i think you should ask her out for a date and whilst on the date try to give her a kiss or maybe even say that you feel there's something there and see how she responds. Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 October 2009):
Ask her out for a coffee or something. Just say to her that you would really like to get to know her more, and that you'd like to meet her for a coffee. If she says yes, then when you do meet, gently ask her about herself and listen to her, and let her ask you questions. If you're shy, don't be afraid to tell her that you're a bit shy. But the first step is to ask her for a date and then slowly get to know her. Good luck.
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