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Should I tell her how I feel or should I let my feelings fade?

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Question - (18 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i had a thing with a friend and then broke it off, but recently i have been thinking about her allot. she however is in a relationship with someone. i dont know what to do. should i tell her how i feel or should i let my feelings fade?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2009):

She's taken, so you can't touch her. She's not yours to touch. You'll get over her in time and find someone who will want to be with you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009):

You & me both. It takes a LOOOOOONG time for feelings to fade but if you're not going to act, that is the best thing to do. It SUCKS. It hurts. I *HATE* thinking of HIM, struggling to endure the weeks away from him, swearing I'm over it, feeling like I'm over it only to have him glance at me with those deep brown eyes, full of his own emotions and questions, and I'm back where I started. And with both of us married, I can't do a thing but rip apart inside.

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