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writes:I am in a new relationship with a great guy and have been dating him for the past 2 months. I am new to the dating scene but he treats me right, talks to me everyday and constantly tells me he cares for me. I really like him and want this to work. The only problem is that he seems to overanalyze everything, including what I say and do. For example, on one date, I wasnt so talkative after having a long day at work. He took it offensively thinking I stopped liking him and wasnt great at conversing with him. He over thinks things and its scaring me, even making me over think things too now.I have met each others friends and family and I deeply care for him. We have a great time otherwise. Are we taking things too fast? I dont want to sweat the small stuff, what do I do? Help!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 October 2009):
I think Sophie has it right below. Have a tlak with him and ask him why it is he has to analyze small things. Is there something in his past that makes him insecure?
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reader, Sophiee92 +, writes (18 October 2009):
I think the best thing to do is be open about it and have a chat with him, tell him how you're feeling but say some good things too. If he respects you enough he'll listen but don't let it turn into a row.
I think you can make it work if you express your concerns to each other openly.
Hope this helps
Good luck :)
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