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writes:Hey aunts, I am 24 and rather inexperienced for a girl of my age. Earlier this year, I met a guy I really liked, but after a month I still was not ready to have sex with him and we parted ways (it was not cordial). Over the summer I saw him at a party and after that we started communicating. Mostly over facebook. So nothing intimate. A few weeks later I apologized for earlier in the year and we agreed to go out for drinks. I ended up sleeping with him. I’m glad I did, it felt right and it was completely on my terms. Cut to today, three months later. I have not seen him since. I’ve been on vacation, and he took a job in another city (only an hour away) but still, there have been factors keeping us apart. He occasionally contacts me through social networking sites, but for the most part we don’t really talk to each other.Is it wishful thinking on my part to believe that he actually still would like to see me/date me/ etc? I figured if I was just to be a one night stand he would have cut off all contact, and that seems to not the be case at all. Does he just want to be friends? We are both introspective people so just asking him about it isn’t the best strategy. Thoughts?Thanks.
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reader, marriedchick  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 Ok I will tell you what I read into this situation. If this guy really liked you he would keep in contact with you on a regular basis definitely, it sounds to me that it was just a fling to him and he is kind unlike most guys to not cut you off completely he may be still young and don't know what he wants, maybe things will come around later in life.
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reader, ij +, writes (14 October 2009):
 i think you should forget about him, you not ready to have sex and guys parted ways, if he really liked you as you liked him he would have stayed and not parted! And why did you apologize for not having sex with him, by not having sex with him because you did not feel that it was right shows that you have respect for yourself, do not lose your self respect for that guy, look at what happened after you had sex with him you hardly hear from him again, once again, FORGET ABOUT HIM!!!!
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