How do I help him to bring this relationship to the next level?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My problem is that i am 33 but i look like 20.it is strange because every one wants to look younger as i do but the problem is that i can't the guy of my age to marry him.i am very beautiful,successful and educated woman.till now i didn't date any one and i am still virgin this is all due to my appearence because it is like a repeated dramma the one who likes me is younger than me for about 8 yr or somtimes for about 14 yr or even more.this is really gives me alot of pain because most of the time i love them but due to our age gap it doesn't work.if you ask me why i will tell you because i live in the middle east and here mostly guys marry those that are younger than them. i know that most of them loved me but they couldn't stand against their family or society.NOW another guy wants me and i fell the same.he is younger than me for about 9 yr.i want this relation to work out with me but i need your advice what should i do to make him confess and break this silence because till now he is using his boddy language to express his love and some times his anger with me.how can i help him to bring this relation into the second level,please.

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A male reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (14 October 2009):

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