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I don't want to waste time if he doesn't like me. Is there hope?

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Question - (10 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Welllll! Okay, so I kind of like this boy in my biology classs. He sits infront of me. And he kind of flirts with me but I can't tell if he's a flirt and just a waste of my time or maybe, possibly likes me. The girl next to me told me the other day "He likes you. It's so obvious." But I can't really tell if she's right. Btw, we just met this year, like .. a month ago or two.

Well first of all, everyday I come into biology he's turned around facing my desk and usually gives me high fives. Sometimes he steals my pencils or my binder as soon as I put it down, lol. Kind of childish, but I think it's cute ;) Also while I'm sitting there, he'll turn around and squeeze my knee to make me jump! And he squeezes my sides! He does it all the time! lol. And whenever the other guys that sit near me start to talk to me he turns around and listens and tries to get my attention and talk to me too.

One day he asked me if i was going to an after school ice cream party for freshman and sohpmores and i was, then he was like "Yay! Now I'mm gonna have someone I know there!"

Also when we were going to a diff. class for a day because ours was being used we could sit whereever we wanted. And I sat next to an empty seat and he came in and sat next to me really fast and said "I'm sitting here!" Then we were partners and the girl behind him was like "Can you help me? pleaseeee!" And he was like "noo i'm helping her [meaning me]"

He always gives me answers when I don't know them and helps me on papers that I don't understand.

Sometimes he walks with me after schoool, but he always makes jokes and says "your gay!" All the time. So idk if he's just seeing me as a friend.

Then we had our home coming dance, he went with another girl /: but i went with another guy too. When he saw me he yelled my name so I went over to him and he put his arms out and hugged mee. Then when I was dancing with my date I kept seeing him look over. Then I was walking in the hallway at the dance and he saw me and came over and gave me another hug(: But then he saw i was walking with my friend but she was a little far behind me so then he gave her one too... so I don't know.

And at our home coming game he kept coming over to me when I was in this big group of guys. I was pinching them,lol because they were getting on my nerves.

Then he was like it won't hurt me! Your gay! So i went to pinch him and he acted all scared and started running so i would chase him [But in school when I pinched him and it was just me and him he was like i dont care go ahead it doesnt hurt] But at the game he kept running. And when i stopped chasing him and went back to the guys i was with he came over again and said Your still gay! And you didnt get me! So i'd go after him again.

Then last week I was sick for 4 days, and when I came back to school and went to bio. he was like "Your back finally!!" and gave me a high five... And kept turning around and talking to me.

But one day when he kept squeezing my knee and the girl next to me was like

"It's so obvious."

and I was like "What?"

and she was like "Its obvisous he likes you!"

Then he was like "whats obvious?"

And i hurried up and said "Nothing!"

Then he squeezed me knee again

and she was like "see! he likes you!"

so then he stopped turning around the rest of that day.

We talk now though still, he still squeezes my knee and sides. Still highfives and stuff. And says your gay! lol.

I really like him, But i don't want to tell him. And I don't wanna be wasting my time liking him if there's no hope...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2009):

There's hope! I'm pretty certain he fancies you. He's displaying all the classic symtoms of a guy who fancies you! :) So now you have to be brave and talk to him, because it sounds like he's not sure whether you like him. Be brave and talk to him. Good luck.

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