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writes:Dear AllThis is following up from last December. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-i-rejected-what-do-i-do-now.htmlBasically I told the girl of my dreams for five years, that I loved her dearly. It was all a bit too much for her; I left her alone after woods as it resulted in silence for a week or so. Over the last two months she has said hi over time, but I have given her space and don’t sit near her etc.The other day we were in the costume room as we were asked to clean up, she was with her two friends (one male, one female). Someone pointed out how one dress was like her prom dress. XXXXXXX then started talking about the prom and we all joined in. She then asked if I’m going to our leavers prom this year, I said I was unsure (as I am), she asked me why and I explained I was unsure and also as I have only two friends I didn’t know what I would do about a table etc. Cut the long story short, it turned out her two friends were going together, and that she was going alone.I was desperate to ask her if she would go with me, but thought it would be too much after December. Also I’m unsure if she likes me too. I was resigned to the idea that she had turned me down (see link).It’s real hard as I’m so confused and don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be too pushy or read signals wrong, but then I don’t want to be stupid and miss signals and loose out, leaving her upset.We hardly see each other, other than briefly in corridors etc, apart from once a week.Do you think I should ask her to the prom? If so what’s the best way do you think?Thank you so much, any advice would be much appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymousgirl09 +, writes (28 January 2009):
Personally i think you should go for it
Ask her to prom otherwise you will spend the rest of your life regretting it, trust me
If your not sure what to say, maybe bring prom up again and casually drop in that you hadn't got a date yet, and find out if she had, if she says no, you should just ask whether she'd like to go with you,
What have you got to lose? This may change your life completely!
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reader, xgummybearx +, writes (28 January 2009):
 i think you should ask her :)
she wouldnt of bothered talking to you about it if she was going to say no if you did so GO FOR IT MATE (:
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