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writes:Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it but I'm not. I still like him.. I've tried to move on but how can I when I still have to work with them..
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (28 January 2009):
I think the best thing is to not be involved with someone at work considering the conflict it can cause and possibly you lose your job. I do understand how you feel but I would think in this situation you would see that he obviously wants someone else so just walk away and save yourself the heartache.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (28 January 2009):
 You're in between the proverbial rock and the hard place.
It is pretty raw of him to just up and start dating someone else without saying something to you. It sounds like you are being the mature one in this situation!
If things go sour between the two of them, and he starts sniffin' around you again, that's the time to tell him what a "no good" he is!
My best advice is to take this experience with you for the rest of your life, meaning, don't fish the company pond!
Joe~
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reader, greg290352  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Hi - its very hard to deal with that situation. One reason why work affairs are risky. You are doing the right thing by not letting him see how hurt you really feel. The best advice I can give is to find another boyfriend to take away the feelings of hurt. Good luck :-)
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