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I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?

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Question - (28 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?

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A female reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2009):

xXxkinki_katiexXx agony auntFirst of all you say you want to date but you worry about what lads might say about your weight??

If a honest true lad comes along he wont like you for what you look like,, he'll like you for your personality,, in the mean time go to the doctors and see what you can do :D x

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A male reader, Kepi United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2009):

Kepi agony auntHey...... listen, firstly, weight isn't an issue OK? (unless it is causing a medical condition) You are saying two or three years ago people talked about your weight, things change, you're growing up, things happen to your body and weight gets distributed around, besides, if you are wanting to date, well it's personality that counts not looks, the prettiest girl in the world can be so uninteresting :-)

So, here's what I suggest, take a trip to the doctors and have a checkup, let a professional tell you if there is a weight issue, they will also be able to recommend how to deal with it if (IF!!!) there is a 'problem' The last thing you need to do is start dieting or following one of the other weightloss fads, especially if you dojn't need to.

As for the dating thing, ok you've decided that altho u like being single you want someone now....again natural, hang around with mates and you'll soon find someone who wants to be with you just cos its you :)

So, now go see your doc and maybe you'll be (pleasantly) surprised with what they say

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