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writes: Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they somehow fixed me and this guy up.We have now been talking for about 2 months. Things were great, he always wanted to see me, we would text and talk on the phone. But lately we haven't been talking all that much and its been two weeks that we've seen each other. We have been texting throughout those two weeks, but I'd rather see him. I understand he's a busy guy since we works, goes to the gym and has a social life. I myself have a job and attend college, and even though I'm usually always busy I'm willing to make time to see him, so why won't he?Lately I've felt him distant, like if he's TOO busy to at least give me a 5 minute call or to text me just to see how I'm doing. I think that after a year we obviously care for each other. A year past and we still wanted to talk to each other and we were still interested in each other. Shouldn't that be a sign that he does wanna talk to me? And I know he likes me because he's told me.I'm just wondering if I should tell him how I feel? Am I being to needy? Or should I just let things go?
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reader, AperfectSchism  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 It sounds like he DOES like you, but perhaps he's not interested in a relationship right now.
Men (and women) use the "I'm really busy" excuse constantly when they're either not interested in a relationship, OR they already are in a relationship (or a little 'dating' thing) and want to keep you from knowing that.
That's just from my opinion, though. He honestly could be too busy with work and whatnot, can't find the time to relax and sit down to actually have a conversation with you (rather than a quick 5-min phone call that leaves you wanting more, lol) so he says, hopefully solemnly, that he is busy.
I hope this helps a little.
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