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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out.Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the guy she is dating is one of my best friends. As much as I like the guy he has loads of problems and tends to take them out on this girl. I want to find a way to get through to her and show her that this guy isn't good enough for her and that she should be with me.Can you help?Thanks
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reader, pinkey1981  +, writes (2 January 2009):
You can say something to her about how he treats her, but be prepared for anything. If this guy is such a friend then why would you wanna break them up. Every guy that likes another girl that their buddy is dating thinks she can do better. If you force the issue without them naturally breaking up youll lose them both as a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): I think you should just talk to her about it. Just explain what you've been observing in their relationship and you feel that she isn't getting the respect she deserves. You care about her and you shouldn't let anyone treat your friend that way.Just tell how much she means to you and tell her if she needs anyone to talk to, she can always rely on you. You'll always be there for her but just take things slow becaouse then you'll scare her off. Tell her what you've been noticing and just leave it at that. She may feel like you're forcing her to leave her boyfriend or like you're butting in too much. Siome girls just don't realize that you want the best for them. Giving her goods advice and always being there for her, might make her fall in love with you!Good Luck!
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