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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...

Lied about my age .. again :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Help :( I have always had a problem with revealing my true age, I guess it relates back to primary and high school days where I was bullied and I guess I have had a "make up for lost time" kind of attitude towards life. I am currently 26 and...

How do I get over this stupid guy!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hey so this summer I worked at a camp from june to july. I met this guy that I had seen 2 years previous who I had thought was cute when I was at the camp as a camper. He was my CC (camp crush).A camp crush is just an innocent crush campers have on ...

I don't want to blow this chance to date her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i have been working in a supermarket over christmas a temporary job. i got the job because my mum works in the same shop full time. i have really enjoyed it and one of the first people i met was this 18 year old girl i don't believe in love at first ...

He is sweet but lacks the initiative, does he really care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Which one says the truth about my ex who I recently reconciled with? When I am with him, he doesn't want me to do anything but sit or lie beside him. He stares at me all the time and like to cuddle the whole day. When I am not beside him, he g...

Attracted to a colleague who has suddenly turned cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - im sitting here needing advice-this is so sad. i met a guy at my job two months ago-i cant explain it but we clicked and get along so well-we have coffee breaks etc-he says he likes working with me too and we had a coffee out once and i sent a t...

I don't have any parenting skills and she has a 2 year old...should there be some instant bond or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - I have met a old flame from school, I havnt seen her in 6years. When we met the same chemistry was still there and we hit it off as though we hadn't stopped seeing each other all those years! She has recently came out of a relationship as have I. ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

In love but the feeling isn't mutual, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - I am in love with someone but she ignores me and I get the feeling that she just doesn't like me. What can i do, please help?...

Does a woman become clingy after losing her Virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - They say that when a woman loses her virginity to a man she becomes clingy. Is this true in all cases? In addition what are the other signs that a woman is truly a virgin, one pattern I have noticed is her behavior to make elaborate fantas...

I'm dating my teacher, and I'm confused, Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have had this enormous crush on this teacher of mine for almost 3 years. Actually it's not just a crush, it has turned into an obsession kinda. I've finally worked up the courage to tell him of my feelings a few weeks ago because I just REALLY ...

Why doesn't he take me out on a proper date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Its kind of difficult to know where to start. I think that i am head over heels in love with my friend(male)but he doesn't seem to share the feeling. We have known each other for nearly a year but been really good friends for the past 6 months. I ...

Is our relationship ever going to settle down? Is he ever going to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I met my bf when we both werent looking for a relationship. we never wanted to be apart, he made me feel wonderful, he was inspired to change his outlook on life, we were both so alike(and still are in some ways). passionate, kind, thoughtful...

Embarassed by drunken friend in front of my date! Will he want to meet up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I had a date tonight w/ this guy but had canceled before.So despite the fact I had a killer migraine tonight - We got together (i didnt want to cancel again n come off as a flake).I had an obligation to be a des. driver for a friend later in the ...

Attracted to a straight man, I am bi sexual, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im ...

Her kiss felt different to his, I can't understand why, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female and bi. A while ago me and my closest friend who's a girl kissed (So I could "experiment"-I told her that, but I actually just wanted to kiss her) A few weeks later a guy I've known for almost a year randomly wanted to hang out. We ...

Should I ask out my cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Okay, this is a... predicament, so i will remain anonymous for obvious reasons- Here's the story: I recently traveled out of state to visit aunts, uncles, cousins, and so on... I was hanging out with one of my male cousins, when two girls ...

She doesn't want to risk our friendship so how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - I have known a girl for about 6 years. I have always liked her. She tells me I am her best friend. Even though I have feelings for her we have both dated different people, but we're both currently single. She seems to date guys older than her. ...

Why doesn't she talk to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - There is this shy girl, who happens to be the sister of one of my best friends. I’ve known the two of them (off and on) for the past nine years. Back then she wasn’t so shy. She would talk to me all the time and play games with me and her brother. ...

Is he giving me a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 2 months. He broke it off and said he wanted to stay friends. So it took about 3 weeks and he took me to lunch was good had good conversation. And now were gonna be going to the movies in the next week...now is he maybe giving it a ...

Should I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I am so confused! I just don't know whether I should go out on a date with this guy I saw over the summer. I didn't tell him that my mother died just two months shorter before I met him and he didn't tell me he broke up with his ex just two months ...

Am I wasting my time if he doesn't love me yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - hi everyone, me and my bf have been dating a bit over three months now, and have pretty much spent every day together (we attend the same college). on christmas, he left for a trip to asia. on this day, i also emailed him telling him that i loved...

Age difference and disapproving parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i decided to go back to college and further my education. I am a bit older than normal college age (late 30's). While there I've met a woman that I fell for. She tells me that she has the same feelings for me, but her family disapproves of it ...

Does a player ever change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I just started a dating this guy i liked for a while (lets call him D) but the problem is another guy i know(M)is causing problems. I have never dated M or did any more then flirt with him and play games with him but we didnt really talk as much the ...

Are these feelings wrong for me to have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i am in love with my boyfried we have been together for over a yr. i was talking to another guy when we hooked up. i recently chatted w/him and i kind of feel like i want to talk more to him. i feel quilty b/c i like i wouldn't mind seeing him again ...

Do I try and show her father I've changed? He's a cop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Ok , I live in a small town wehre everyone knows everyone. As a teenager and in to my ealrie 20's i went through the whole bad boy stage. Ditching school , drinking, fighting, racing cars, drugs, tattoos, I did jail time for break and enter and drug ...

What is this emotion I get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Okay, so i've been with my girlfriend a couple of months now, and we have connected, spiritually, emotionally/mentally, and physically. NO! We have not had sex, and we're proud that our relationship doesn't rely solely on sexual purposes. But once ...

Do mixed signals mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - theres this guy i know, we get along pretty well, we have our moments but then at times He Acts like he likes me- then he ignores me! i just get all these mixed signals.... at times i catch him looking at me in class, when we watch movies tog...

Loneliness or desperation?

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30 December 2009 (F) - loneliness. for the whole of 2009. i have not dated not even talk to a guy in the process of dating him. now i dont need a guy to be happy but i like the companionship n knowin someone to b there for me.there is this guy thas been there all year ive ...

Should I throw in the towel with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Ive had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year(Im a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my x bff who knew I liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. Be4 I got my chance to show him how i feel he starts dating a girl named ...