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Dating: Help and advice

Need HELP picking a xmas gift for my GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - This may not be a relationship question but the DC community has helped me many times and I hope you can offer some advice now. I've been in a relationship with the most wonderful woman I've ever met for about 2 years now and maybe because of...

He's just told me he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship at the moment...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I dont like myself at the moment. Today i was incredibly happy, i realised how fantastic my friends are, im seeing a great guy... yet now i feel so so different. I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks, and he is lovely... brought me a lovely p...

Why are Western men so infatuated with the idea of being with an Asian female?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Why are Western men so infatuated with the idea of being with an Asian female and why do you rarely see Asian men with foreign women?...

It's so stressful to equally like four people - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Has anyone reading this ever Loved or had Lust for more than 1 person at the same time. Well thats the way my life leads at the moment. I have around 3 or 4 people that I really like all equally. Firstly there is my friend from Canada. I have r...

He is a lovely man but his hairy back turns me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Ive met this lovely man after a very unhappy 3 yr being in a mental abuse relationship and didnt believe there could be any nice men out there! Ive been single a yr got my head sorted with counciling and finally ready to move on! And thats when this ...

Should I bring this very dodgy subject up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I was hanging out with my boyfriend the other day and he was all going through my phone (of course i didnt have anything to hide) but anyways, then he kept trying to take pictures of me and i was being dumb and like shy so then he had to get the ...

Is my brain my problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - I get answers saying that it's a psychological thing in my brain - the reason why I dont get erections. Is that true? If so what can I do to stop worrying about my penis size because I think that since I'm not 6 inches erect I'm 5 and a half erect, ...

We are not going out and he started touching me, does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - well thers this guy and we're not goin out or any thing but when we snogged he got close to me and started fellin me up what does this mean does it mean he like me as more than a friend...

How can I accept that I can never be hot for my b/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm not a hot and sexy female. I know this because ever since I hit puberty, I've lacked the attention my friends got. Then I got a boyfriend, and I felt secure... until time passed, we started getting more comfortable with each other and I started ...

Shyness can get in the way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hey i need some help i like this boy in my college course and he is really shy and so am i but i dont think he likes me in the same way. I wanna try but i just cant get the confidence to go for it. I have tried talking to him on facebook but he o...

How will I know when he wants to kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we have never been on a date and i want 2 know how will i know when he wants to kiss me on our date...

What do I do if my feelings aren't as strong as his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Yesterday I decided to say yes to this guy who asked me out and has really liked me for a while, it was a hard decision because I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship and I thought it would be weird for him because he likes me more than I like him. ...

She has a boyfriend so how can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - How do you fall out of love with someone that has a boyfriend and you see everyday? I teach a class at the gym and go almost everyday, and for the last 4months there has been a very attractive girl going, i worked up a conversation wit...

Does a guy like you if he asks for your MSN?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - If a guy ask you for your msn does that does to show that he is interested in you?...

Do women like short, skinny men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - are there any wemen out there who go for short skinny men??...

Will my obsessive ex scare my new boyfriend off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! Alright so I just started dating this guy last week. We are having fun, going out, getting to know each other better etc. I really like him and things couldn't be better... Except for my obsessive ex-boyfriend. Him and I broke up ...

Should I sign my christmas card to my boyfriend with "love from"? We havent said "I love you" to each other yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - This probably sounds like a silly question but should I sign my christmas card to my bf 'love from...' or leave the love part out? The thing is we have been together in a relationship for 7 months now and havent said "I love you", so im not sure ...

Why is he always questioning me about other men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - here goes, i have known this guy(KS)for three years, but we became close friends this past year. at first he would call me or text me all the time, seems he was intrested in me. making moves and asking questions about the guy am dating and so on. my ...

I feel so insecure after his female friend came to him for advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - well, I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. I love my bf so much. I can't imagine living without him a sec. One his friend is getting divorce( a woman). She came to talk to him. he was giving her advice, and i was here too. before ...

I want us to remain friends but also let him know I do not love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - hi I know you can help me! I am a lady who has a friend who thinks that I am his wife to be. That's great but I honestly have no feelings at all for him. I am not even attracted! But he's kind, understanding and supportive. The first problem is t...

We've been seeeing each other for months but I think he's losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - ok so im only 16 an iv been meeting this boy about 11 months recently got togther..but often ignores me an talks about other girls to me. i don know wether he likes me anymore or is cheating on me....

He says he likes me too, but I wonder if he's playing me

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10 December 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I really like and he knows it. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We talk, text each other, sometimes talk on the phone too. He acts like he likes me. Like, I sent him a text saying that I was talking to my guy BFF and that ...

I'm afraid to pursue a girl who likes me because of what my friend says

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl who likes me, and I really like her. Its been almost a week, and things are going great but my best friend is getting in the way sorta now. He just found out today that we are talking and the first thing he said was "don...

I found pictures of nude women on my b/f's computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I found a bunch of pictures of naked women on my boyfriend's cd and a small sex video. Is there something I should be worried about? I feel that he has a problem? Or also feeling that he's not getting enough sex in our relationship which leads me to ...

I like a girl I don't know, and I don't know if she is gay or straight either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hey all...I have a rather immature question, I think. So this year at college, I noticed this other girl in a couple of my classes, and from what I can tell, she is my definition of awesome. I've only talked to her a few times but she's been nice to ...

I get all uptight around women and I want to unbend a little

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - Guys and gals, I have a problem. For a long, long time I've convinced myself that I'm just incompatible with women. That I'm not handsome enough, fit enough, funny enough etc to draw the attention of any females. I've also told myself that women ...

I don't want history to repeat itself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm about to break up with my long distance boyfriend when I come home for Christmas break. I can't stop crying. It's light crying, not excessive but it still hurts so much. I love him but things between us have only been getting worse, although he ...

He is the sweetest guy but after a month I don't want to date him any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I have the sweetest guy ever. He's the one every girl wants but the thing is I don't want him and I don't know what to do because he's so in love with me. We've known each other for a year but just started dating a month ago and now Im just tired of ...

Is this what relationships are about, or am I being taken for granted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 6 years. I stood by his side through thick and thin, I put up with things that I would never have. Ok lately in the past year our relationship has crumbled, he's been totally emotionally abusive towards me. He claims ...

Crazy in love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I need some advice, I'm 21 years old and i was involved with an older man 32 now, for two years. I was undeniably in love with him, totally and completely. To me he was perfect and my everything, my best friend and lover, we were both in love crazy ...

Does anyone think it is odd him going to his ex wife for Christmas day... or am I being jealous and unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I've posted on her before and got some really helpful advice so I'm back for more! I split up with my partner about 6 months ago (after 7 years together). He walked out after us having many problems and I was upset and in...

He said he doesn't care about my past dating experiences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my new boyfriend for only 3 weeks after getting to know each other for about 4 months. He hasn't had a girlfriend or had sex before and he says we can take things as fast or slow as I want. I'm not sure how fast to move things along! ...

Why does it hurt every time we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Every time I have sex it feels like the first time, We sometimes do it 5-6 times in a night and it hurts every time, sometimes he doesn't even put it in all the way, but it still hurts, he says I just have to get used to it but I don't think so, we ...

How can I lower my sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who is involved with a man who is 65. He suffers from ED and does take cialis for this. The problem is my sex drive is still just so high and I seem to just never get enough of him when we are intimate. I have even turned ...

What can I do to still feel like he's around and not have to cry every night because I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk on the phone and text every day. We're always in contact, but tomorrow he's leaving for his winter vacation and won't be back until January 7th. That's 4 weeks! He's going to a ...

Is it possible to grow to love someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I am pregnant and engaged. I just graduated college this past spring. I dated someone when I went to college, I still love him. He is not the man I am marrying. I am marrying the father of my baby, we met this past summer. I hardly talk to my ...