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anonymous
writes:I have known a girl for about 6 years. I have always liked her. She tells me I am her best friend. Even though I have feelings for her we have both dated different people, but we're both currently single. She seems to date guys older than her. We go out together all the time. When we do we are very flirty and touchy with each other. I recently told her my feelings for her. She told me that she did not want to get into anything with me for fear of losing our friendship if it didn't work out. But I cannot move past her. I can't find any girl I like more than her and it makes me sick to think about her with anybody else. What should I do? I just cannot move on from her and its been like this for years even though I have dated other girls.
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 this is obviously love for you aint it mate..if there is nothing that you can do then that is mate she has obviously made her feelings quite clear and i think that she is right because how does she no how things are going to work out and you seem to have been friends for a long time do you really want to risk it????if leaving her alone and having her just as a mate still dosent work try again in a little while and talk to her about it again and see what she says then. it may have been a shock for her that is all and i think that if you asked her again she might be more inclined to say yes.. but be sensitive you dont want her to go off of you as a mate or boyfirend material! hope that this helps :) x
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