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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She is pulling pints and they are trying to pull her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend works 2 jobs, during the day she is an optician and in the evening she works behind the bar in a pub. we have been together for 6 months and at first things were ok at the pub, she used to like me going and talking to some of the ...

Why is this guy behaving like this after our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - we went on a date.. he kissed me.. he wanted to touch me up.. i didnt let him...(he got a bit distant) when i got home i rang him to tell him i had a nice time.. he said he did too..he said he would call me. didnt hear from him for 5days ...

Why was he rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - One for girls who liked a guy, but turned him down anyway A guy approaches a girl out of nowhere. He's comfortable in his own skin. He looks pretty good. Dresses pretty good. He's got a good enough build. He's not rude. Etc. The girl doesn'...

He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Okay so I love my boyfriend. We've been friends for like a year and just started dating a month ago but sometimes he can be so embarrassing. I've never really minded it until now. He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do. ...

How long to wait for him to totally commit to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hello there! My question is this. I have a boyfriend of two years and am not sure where it is going to progress. I am Catholic and he is agnostic. How long do I wait for him to make a complete commitment to me? We also live four hours from eac...

Busy? Or just not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a Dr, we're both late 20s). I met him through friends just over a month ago but people have been trying to set us up for months, saying he has seen me around, been asking abou...

Parents don't want us to date, what can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - hi im 16 me and my bf have a weird situation we go 2 a baptist church and the adalts there including our parents dont want us 2 date and we git in trouble 4 the dumbist things like holding hands.we've never kissed or anything lik tat and we've been ...

He's the one who cheated but he tells me I can't talk to guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now since we have been together i have caught him cheating ,i have caught him on several dating websites and also caught him on phone dating services chatting and talking with different girls. ...

I left, she kissed somebody else, now I want her back, but she is wary

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I am a 25 yr old male. Ive been withthe same woman for almost years the first 6 months were better than I could have ever imagined then we hit the one year mark and we start arguing alot more then a few weeks ago I got tired of fighting without ...

Woops, wrong name, wrong guy, wrong time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I met a really cool guy online in Sept. and he lives far away. It was going really well, and then I dated someone else I met a little later who lived closer. I felt guilty as I didn't love the second guy, and when we were intimate, I called him by ...

His parents interfere and he is losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - dear cupid, what do u do when u hav been dating almost a year and the others parents prevent u from talking very often and it seems that the other is losing interest in you what do you do to keep them interested?...

I am cheating but instead of making me happy, it makes me cry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - whenever my boyfriend and I have sex i never come unless he goes down on me, but lately Ive been crying after sex, Im also seeing some1 else and after sleeping with him I also started crying and I didnt even come, I laugh and cry alot its wiered and ...

Who is going to want me looking like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I´ve just been feeling sad about my appearance lately. As a child, I was very early to develop (by the standards of the times I lived in). when I was ten, I suffered from severe acne... and now my face is horribly scarred. My parents were alw...

Is it wrong for me to pursue a relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I dated this beautiful girl in high school and for what ever reason I broke up with her. After high school graduation (1973), I started searching for her as I still loved her and have been searching and just now have found her. We have been ...

My 38 year old GF is smothering me and wants kids ASAP and I am not ready

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I 34.5 and my girlfriend is 38.5. We've been dating for almost 3 months and knew each other as friends for 2 months before that. I care for her very much, but feel as if I'm constantly being pressured to move quicker than I am comfortable with ...

These are the things I bought for my BFs family for Christmas. Do you think Santa will bring me lots of goodies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - what's you christmas shopping list this year ? finally finished all my christmas shopping... the follow list contains waht i got for the others as presents:, bf's dad: a wine shelf (together with my boyfriend.... we are poor students bf's step...

Is this guy worth a second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - pls help me, im a virgin n never been in relatnshps..nw my bf is askin fr a second date....on d first he lockd hs car n grabd my breast n kissed forcibly n tried 2 remove my top.i cried n he left me. he cld n said sry but continues wid horny mesages ...

Is he wanting a no strings relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I'm 22 and startd my first relatnshp 3 months back. I found him online and met last month. He's good but on our 1st date he comlimented me that I have huge boobs and suddenly he caught my boobs and smooched me, forcibly. I cried and left the place. ...

We got together and now we're drifting apart, advise, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - What is up with boys ???? I just don't understand at all.Either they want you or they don't. I was kinda serious with this boy for ages and we really liked each other and we were both going to be at the same place for halloween night so we left it ...

We were friends until he told me he loved me...help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anym...

Is a friends crush a no go zone??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - my friend likes this guy. he is kinda hot but i dont like him in that way. i got his email address and we chat sometimes... but now...i don't know..i sort of like him. wat do i do now?? i mean...is a friends crush a total no-go?? help!...

Complicated relationship issues, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - So two years I was out for my best friends, brothers birthday when i walked into a pub and instantly noticed a male. I said to my friend, i will marry him, jokingly. She gave me this look to say how dare you. As it turns out this male was my frie...

We broke up, but I miss him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex a year ago in a bit of a hasty decision. I think I still have feelings for him but I'm not interested in a relationship or anything serious as I'm in college. But I miss just talking to him and wanted to get back in touch with ...

20 and never had a serious relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - am 20 and ive never had a serious relationship... am a nice girl with a big heart.. friends loves me and everyone i meet says am a lovely person..guys all say am pretty and sexy. but i want a guy who would love me.. am always alone on ...

2 boys love me and never want to lose me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - i have two boys telling me they love me and never want to lose me, One was from a previous long term relationship the second boy ive been with a month but he keeps threatning my ex and his having trust issues. I still really like my ex I do...

Stubborn boyfriend is rethinking relationship because I'm not ready to move in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Thanks to anyone who reads and replies to this. Ok me and my bf have been going out for about 3 years. Hes just recently asked me if we could move in together after my 1st year of uni. I am not ready for such a commitment like that. Ive just sta...

He finds out I like him, and blows it off with another girl the next day! Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Im going to go straight into this question, im 17 years old and im in sixth form doing my a levels. In my sixth people come from all over the place, but ive been in that school since the age of 12. Well in september this boy came to...

I'm confused about the way she feels about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Recently i told this girl i liked her but she said she was not looking for a relationship so i asked her to the christmas dance and she said yes. Then we were taking normally for about a week. After about a week she calls me and asks me if i wa...

Am I doing the right thing by staying with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - i have a big issue and i dont know how to handle it ,i met this girl on a party and well we hooked up that day without knowing each other in the dark ,but we didnt have no intercourse but the second time i saw her we did have sexual intercourse she ...

How to support her in her career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I am 26, living a metro city in India. I am well qualified and have good experience in my filed of work. I am working in a multi national company, have a stable job and earning well. I have my flat which I took on loan and living with my paren...

I snooped and found things, now how to confront him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - i know its wrong of me but i recently went thru my bfs cell phone and found things that bother me. How can i confront him without him knowing i went in his phone?...

Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and w...

I took him back, but I still feel betrayed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now, but a year ago, he cheated. I took him back after only a week of thinking on it and feeling sorry for myself. I just knew I couldn't handle life without him, but I still get images of them ...

I have a girlfriend but think about others girls, and told my girl this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I am currently dating a girl I have been with for 3.5 years. Here recently I have been getting strong feelings for other girls. Especially her roommate who also happens to be my best friend and my girlfriend's best friend. I have told her about ...

In a relationship with no title

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Ok here's my situation. I'm 19 and I'm dating a 28 yrd. We started off just hanging out then i moved in with her to help pay bills, then we started dating. Now she was in several relationships before me and suposedly cheated on in all of them. She ...

How can I ask her without sounding weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - there is this girl i like but i dont know what to do how do i bring up a conversation that leads me to tell her that i like her and to ask her if she likes me? what do i start with or what do i talk about?...

How do I got about rekindling our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I fell in love with my best friend, a girl, about two years ago. We dated and crossed borders we had tried to set, but we stopped that and forgave each other. Then a few months later she broke up with me, saying I wasn't the one she was going to ...

What are more sure signs a guy likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - What are the signs a guy likes you? Since this can be slightly vague at times, what are more sure signs a guy likes you?...

I don't know how to stop missing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I don't know how to stop. I don't know how to stop loving my ex boyfriend. I don't know how to stop missing him. It seems over the past year, I can only go a few weeks before I run back to him all over again. He's like a drug and I am honestly ad...

How do I find out if he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Okay so there is this guy I work with, he works the night shift and I come on for my shift just as his shift ends, but I only work a couple of times a week, and dont really see him too much. But the last few times I have seen him, I have been late ...

Everyone is telling me my boyfriend will dump me because he just wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Everyone keeps telling me that my bf will dump me and leave me and just want sex, is this true? Should I listen to them? Basicaly whats happened is that when my bf and I first met he wanted sex early in the relationship, but I didnt because I ...

Should I stop flirting and keep it just as a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - okay same guy same senario kinda.. so ive stayed with this guy several times now. i know he wants me to stay the night with him because he is the one who asks me to. but! every single time when it comes down to having sex there is always some excuse ...

Do his good points outweigh his bad ones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I've recently starting dating this guy who i am totally besotted with he is like all I think about but I don't know why its really strange. He is charming, sensitive, funny, mysterious, caring and very very handsome but at the same time he is ...

Maybe in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I think I may be bi? I have a best friend who is a "straight" girl- I am closer to her than any other person I know. We literally spend all of our time together. We sleep next to each other whenever she's over. We change and I even talk to her...

Is my ex girlfriend playing mind games???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Hi sorry this question is going to be really long with the details and such. Me and this girl dated for 3 years. You could say she was my first love. I was her first love too. Our relationship was wonderful she was tight with my family i was tig...