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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend and my friend are fighting. Neither will tell me why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, we see each other as much as possible but it's a LD relationship at the moment. He did get drunk and cheated once before therefore I'm always worried. Well while online I told a m...

He lied, I wasn't his first. Should that matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Well me and my fiance have been together for 10 years, I was 14 when we started him 18. Well when we first started he had told me he wasn't a virgin and had sex with his girlfriend before me, but then after we had sex he said he was lying. Off an on ...

I like him. Do what others think about his looks matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I kind of like this boy and some of my friends are telling me that he is ugly but others think he is goodlooking. I am really confused what do you think? http://s934.photobucke...

One day he talks to me and the next he ignores me. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - One day he smiles and talks to me, the next day he ignores me. What could it be? About a year ago I noticed this guy in the street, he noticed me too and we smiled at each other. This went on for a while. Then I bumped into him in a coffee shop...

Does anyone else feel down for being a virgin? I'm 23.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - I feel down that I haven't had a girlfriend or intimacy in a while. I've made out with a few girls, but haven't gone all the way with one. I remember a few years back people teased me about this, and I just went nuts on them. I'm still a 23 yr ...

He is engaged, but wants to be with me. My friend saw him looking at engagement rings, and now he says he has something to tell me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Gaaaaaaaaah! I'm going quite mad here, so someone PLEAASE help before I go do a Britney! Right then, the basics; I'm twenty six (ignore the age bracket, I clicked the wrong thing when I signed up, how clever am I??) and I'm an archaeologist, w...

How do I transform into a girl boys love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hello, Im 13 and in High school. I feel that anything I do, it doesn't make me popular and i want to be popular with boys aswell. After 2 years at HS, i feel it is too late. I wouldnt say Im ugly and I wouldnt say Im big headed... I just speak my ...

Questions about culture, age difference, and dominance in my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - A connumdrum. I am 40 he is 24. We fell in love and then out of love, and now we are having a relationship. It has been nearly a year now and we are still together. At 24, he comforts me, supports me mentally (other, i get from my work)he satisfies ...

My husband left me, I started dating and now my ex wants me back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - My husband of 10 years decided to leave me and our two children who are still under 10 years old, for another woman about 6 months ago. My world was turned upside down. I did every thing in my power to make him stay. He wouldn't give me the time of ...

I really like this guy but am getting mixed signals from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hey. I’ve posted question this a few times before, but I need your help. I really like this guy but am getting mixed signal from him. He’s a mutual friend who’s at college with me. We’ve been talking on msn for about a year, more and more. By now...

How can I make the next step to asking her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - Hi all I've previously asked for advice on how I can win my ex back and am still trying but find myself confused. We have been apart for nearly six months but recently she has been texting me more and asked me out for a coffee last week. She ...

How can I rely on someone who acts like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship for the past 4 years and i try to make things work out, but now, i'm exhausted! Since my bf and I spent the hollidays with his family last year, we decided to go to my home town, and spend at least christmas with my mothe...

I have never been the other woman. I just want him in my life and never want to lose him again. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I met a man named Zack 8 years ago from a mutual friend. We have been best friends since that day. Zack and I have never once said or implied taking our relationship to another level. However, he kissed me out of the blue 5 years ago but pulled away ...

Two best Buddies love the same girl - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - Situation. approximately a year ago, as we start our new college life, we three are happily going together. my best friend and a girl. both of them just hurt from their recent love story. after a few months, i have notice their growing feeling ...

How much do I have the right to ask and know about his exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hi all. Ok, i know that it is very individual and unique to a person and to a couple, but how important/necessary is it to know details about a partners exes? So, what are common things to know (or me to ask about?). What questions should...

My boyfriend doesn't love m anymore, but he still cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. We became very close after about three months, I lost my virginity to him and he's the first guy I have actually sincerely loved. And he's different. He was the one that wanted to take everything ...

Ex went to jail, I've met someone new, but why do I still want my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I was with my son's father for 10 yrs. He went to prison and I met someone new, who treats me alot better than my ex did. I really love this new guy and want to marry him, but I can't seem to get over my ex. What is wrong with me?? ...

Feelings for both sexes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to have feelings for girls and guys at age 14?...

He spends 2-3 night a week with his friends instead of me. Is that normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hi I have a question: is it normal for your guy to spend 2 or 3 times a week with his friends after work and not with you? My guy see's me 2 times a week on his days off and sometimes 3 times a week if he has time during a break at one of his jobs. ...

I felt guilty so I came on too strong. What can I do to fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - i met a girl about 2 1/2 weeks ago, we got to hang out a couple of times and i even went to her house once. She seemed to like me since she was always constantly calling me to do things together from going to the movies to going to parties and ...

Can I get her to change or opinion of me? I want more than friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - So I like this girl in my last period class. She's a country girl. But is completely down to earth. She shares my view of waiting til marriage for sex. She loves riding horses. We both have one. But from what I can tell, she thinks I'm kinda stupid. ...

Does moving on from my ex mean that I have to let go of my best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - So after a year long dysfunctional relationship, I decided to put a stop to it once and for all. I am going sober from my ex boyfriend. Shortly after, me and my ex boyfriend broke up, a couple months back. I started dating my best friend (who has ...

Was he avoiding taking my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Well, I'd liked this guy for quite some time, and he works at my favourite restaurant. We always talk and joke around when I go in. Tonight, I got my usual order, and (remembering the last time I was in) he gave me an extra pickle with my food. He ...

Do guys like girls with make-up, or without?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Many girls wear a lot of make up and some do not wear any at all. I was just wondering if guys like it when girls wear make up or don't. ...

Nervous, want more than a hook up. How do I get to know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I worked at a theme park in the summer. During my last few weeks there I got to know Chris. He worked in a different department. He asked me to hangout but it was right before I was going away to school so I needed to pack and spend time with family ...

I like older men, is the age gap a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - I'm 18 but i like guys who are around 25-27 because most of the guys i have been with around my age are total pr*cks who have just used me for sex. However, I find that the older 1s actually want to know ME not my body, is this too much of an a...

Does my friend fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Theres a guy who is my friend and he is really nice to me and whenever he talks to me I feel like he cares about me. I told him once that I called this really cute guy to go out with me and he got really jealous...the thing is i love being friends ...

How to tell my LDR that I don't want to quit my job and move up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm new so please forgive me if I don't do this right. I've been dating my boyfriend long distance for about 9 months now, I am almost in my thirties and he is mid thirties. We were friends for 5 years when he lived nearby. He was with some...

How do we keep this a secret forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

4 December 2009 (M) - I just know this post is going to be long winded because its such a difficult situation to explain. First of all I just want to say that I think that the problem is mine not my girlfriends, I just wondered if anybody had experienced similar emotions ...