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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do you make LDRs work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I have had several relationships, none of them working for very long. What helps make a good relationship continue? And how do you make LDRs work? In general those have been the quickest to fail for me. I really want this to work out with this guy. ...

I am genuinely confused here..can you all help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Well...Here's the thing... At 16, first year of college, I started seeing this guy who I knew back in Primary School. I found out I was moving and we ended it. Even though we were moving, I started dating someone else...a second year in college....

I lost my gf to a drunk driver 3 years ago..and it still haunts me! How do I cope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - im having a bit of a problem here. About two years, gonna be three Jan 5th, my ex was murdered by a drunk driver. Last year wasn't as bad but this year I keep seeing her everywhere and each time it happens I feel like someone punched me in the ...

He has no idea I like him..how do I let him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, There is this guy that I extremely like and the only thing stopping us from getting together was this girl that he liked even more. I found out that she just got with a guy barely 2 days ago but when my crush finds out I'm sure he'...

I have fallen for my brother's friend and he has fallen for me...What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I have a dilemma..I am falling for one of my brother's really good friends. We realized that we had a mutual attraction to one another over two years ago but we did not know it then. We both decided not to say anything to one another about it ...

I want to ask my friend to be my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - ok. now there is this guy who i like. I thought i lost him but he broke up with his girlfriend. First of all i knew that he liked me alot before and he kept on flirting with me. I wasnt ready for a relationship that time because i broke up with my ...

My bestfriend can't make up his mind if he loves me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and ...

I feel the need for constant reassurance - how do I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Dear all, I'm just looking for some advice. I have a big problem relaxing when I meet a new guy. I met a guy the other week and we all met up with our friends last night for drinks. Although he's quiet we did get on and were holding hands and ...

What our chances of success, I am in love with her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - leaving my wife of 10 years 2 kids for a woman who was my wifes good friend of 5 years She(the other woman) is still married but seperated, left her resent boyfriendof 2 yrs for me and we plan to get an apartment next week, we started the affair a ...

I'm going mad because I have strong feelings for my work mate, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - im falling in love with my work friend and i cant tell him. hes only been there 2 months but i swear by the way we'e connected its like we've known each other 20 years-we laugh,joke,doesnt even feel like being at work. i miss him madly when we're no...

I have the most amazing boyfriend but I'm stuck on the military guy whom I don't even know well! How to forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I can't get over this guy who I dated for only 2 months and it's driving me insane. We went out a few times (just dates, no sex etc) and he then went on a short deployment (he's in the military). While he was away he called every second day and w...

Can opposites attract and last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - hey me and my bf are best friends very much in love but we are very very different. our hobbis are different we like different music, wear different clothes and come from different cultures. however deep down we have the same core beliefs. we are b...

Should I let my guard down with my new bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hey. So I'm with this guy that I've known since about March or April. We work together and we've been good friends since we met. He's easy to talk to and a really nice guy. He's smart, funny, sweet, caring and I definetly can see myself with him in ...

He hasn't contacted me in 5 weeks since father's death--tradition?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - i need to know all the rituals of a death in saudi arabia especially when its the father how does the sons react i feel. for five weeks he has not worried aboiut me where as before he had to go home to attend his dads funeral we were starting a ...

My work colleague has left his wife for me. Should I get involved?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I have been working at my work place for 11 months. It became obvious 6 months ago that one of my married work colleagues had developed feelings for me. He constantly hung around my office area during his lunch. I steadfastly ignored him. Even some ...

It makes no sense. Did he just lose interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I met a guy awhile ago at a friend's party. I was a little drunk, but my friend came up to me and told me this guy thought I was beautiful. So I walked right up to him and gave him a kiss on the check. We talked and he asked for my number, and we ...

Why and How to Play the Game before Love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Ok.. so I want to know why we people have to play a game before giving into love n how to play... Why does it have to be difficult and confusing to just be like "Hey I like u very much and would like it if we stick with eachother and develop , ...

Is settling for best ever an option?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Is settling for second best ever an option? I am crazy about this one guy who understands me right to the core. He's like gasoline to an open flame, so much passion and fire. Trouble is he's got so much going on that a relationship is out of the ...

2 year age gap

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - She's 2 years older than me and told me she likes me I mean I like her but what should I do know? She wishes I was 2 yrs older and we get close holding hands leaning on each other but... She told me in a txt but wHat should I do know I'm sure she ...

Should I take my chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - ok, i've had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year. (i'm a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my ex bff who knew i liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. be4 i got my chance 2 show him how i feel he starts dating a girl ...

Give me something witty to say to him about the fact that he didn't ask for my number after I told him to call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so I like this guy at work (but we work at different companies and only see each other 3-4 times a week) and we exchanged Christmas cards with each other. He gave me his 1st, then I gave him mine. He gave me a small coffee gift card and both of ...

I have fantasies about my ex-girlfriend talking about and sometimes actually cheating on me with another man. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and I was upset at first, eventually got over it, etc. but then somewhere along the line (we were still going out) I began fantasizing about her with other men...sometimes black men, other times one of my friends. I...

I'm in love with my former boyfriend!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hello my name is Jodie, I'm fifteen years old. And it may sound corny but I need someones help, well I'm crying out for it here. Well there is a boy called Tom in my life, he is a former boyfriend, and I'm madly, in love with him, so much he's m...

Talk dirty to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - My bf wants me to talk dirty to him in bed and I don't know what to say .Please help....

Are our feelings on the relationship too different to work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - i'm scared i don't like my boyfriend of 4 years enough for it to last forever. we are long distance and in several months we're going to be living together and i'm very looking forward to that and our future, but he made me nervous because he sent ...

I caught my girlfriend in a couple lies. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - hey guys just found out that my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, was at a guys place few months ago just them two and she smoked weed with him for the first time but lead me to believe she has never done it. she also admitted to having b...

I don't know what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up.. 4 years ago now when he went to College, as it was 3 hours away from where we lived, and he didn't want to do a Long distance relationship. The saddest thing, is that I'm not sure if I'm over him or not. I still ...