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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He has a g/f already but is talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I like this guy and I know that he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend already! He tells me that Im sweet,cute, and smart;but talking like this makes me feel bad for his girlfriend. What should I do?...

We're just too good of friends to date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm just looking for a bit of advice here.. There's this guy, and he wants to date but i'm just really unsure about the whole thing. I'm afraid that we're just too good of friends and I don't want to ruin that. I can't completely give in...

How can we sneak away or be quiet enough that no one knows what we are doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 18 yrs old and have been dating my bf for 2 yrs he is 21. We are sexual activity and have a very good sex life. We haven't seen each other in a little over 6 weeks, and tomorrow I will be flying out to spend christmas with him and his ...

Do women tell half-truths to spare your feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - As a man, it's hard for me to understand how a woman can be attracted and get very close emotionally when I'm not available, then, when I become available, say her attraction comes and goes and we both need to work through our particular issues but ...

How do I go out with him without making the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I am a still rather attractive woman after 3 kids. Look 10 years younger than what I am yet I feel like my life is not moving. I am waiting for it to start. I have had two long relationships but each time they leave me feeling loney and misera...

Tell me the psychology behind this type of behavior man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hey! I met a guy about 11 months ago and from day 1 he came on very strong, telling me only after 2 weeks he felt love for me, he smothered me and completely lusted over me, this completely freaked me out understandably so i regected his effections ...

I honestly believe him with all my heart, should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating for about 3 months and things were going great like we never got into one fight or anything. But about a week ago i hear things going around that he wants to break up with me and im so upset because i dont understand ...

Can you please tell me why I feel guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - hi,ive been talking to this guy for a while, he knows that i love him. i text him yesterday to tell him that the guy next door clean the snow off my car yesterday. but he never replied to my text. today i bought the guy a thank you card, for his ...

I cant be sure that he loves me as much as I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for like a month now and he says that he loves me every time we get off the phone and whenever we talk, but im not sure he really means it cause well I don't think anybody could have the same feelings for ...

I can feel myself getting attached and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy on holiday and he lives 2 hours away. We spoke ever since we met (about 3/4 months) Then last weekend i went on the train to see him. It was so nice, we got on so well. we did get up to a few things, we didnt have sex though. ...

Does he love me as more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I know that I am just another girl asking the infamous question "does he like me?" but I am really confused. I met a guy at work two years ago, and we have since then become really good friends. I would even consider him to be one of my two best...

Is it a good idea to be single when you go to University? Or can relationships work whilst you are at Uni?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm currently in my last year of school and hoping to go to uni next year, which is all good. But there's something that got me thinking... Loads of people are saying that you should be single when you go to uni. Apparently if you're in a rel...

Is this wrong? That I asked her for a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - If you ask a girl if you could kiss her and see where it'd would go. Is that rude? I thought this girl was going to end up giving me another chance to be with her.. So when I dropped her home.. I gave her a hug, and very gentleman like, grabbed ...

I don't know how to be assertive without being an ass!

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21 December 2009 (M) - Well I've been hanging out with this girl for a while now and I know for sure that I like her. I actually think that I might and could develop some deep feelings for her. The problem is that I actually haven't seen her in exactly a month. We've been ...

How come they cant see past the little inperfections and see ME!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Oh boy, I am lost. I'm 16 and have never had a boy friend nor have I ever been what the idiot guys at school call "Fuckable." Which is being #1 Skinny. #2 wear 3lbs of makeup that makes you look like some cliche teeny bopper popstar. and #3 have ...

To scared of being hurt again to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - i was in a serious relationship of 6years with the father of my 2year old son then he decided to just move on with his life because i did not agree to move in with him and he knows that im a christian i cannot live with him because we not ...

I have no answers to my emails from USA boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - last month i have met a guy from U.S, he is such a sweet guy to me, i confront that i like him so much, i love the way that he talk, i like the way that he smile at me,i think that i really fall in love with him and it seems to me that he also likes ...

Should I call him about my accidental "calling" and let him know I'm available to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I've been on a cpl of dates w/ this guy who is incredibly romantic (candlelit dinner on 2nd date/let me borrow his jacket for a 1wk on our 1st date),worries about what I think about everything/makes sure i make it home ok and told me hes a ...

Will I fit into his circle of high class friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - i met a guy a couple of days ago. hes awesome hes the type i go for. im 22 i dnt like dating younger guys my age because i dont find them in my level. so therefore i always go for older guys. so about this guy i met he 55 years old and hes a doctor ...

Any ideas about what's going through his head?

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21 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 2+ months.. We have known each other for for 10+ years and we have kinda dated off and on.. we have recently started dating again and its been about 2 months so far. I have two kids and he has stated that he loves ...

Am I wrong for being so certain he has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I'm a married woman in a polyamorous relationship and I've fallen deeply in love with a good friend. He gives me doe-eyed looks all the time. So I told him my feelings and he "friend zoned" me. He told me he's attracted to me and we're good frien...

What did he mean? Is he just looking for more work, or does he want to see me personally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I am in need of some advice from a male perspective! I wont bore everyone with a long story so basically I met this guy the other day after he came round to my house to carry out some work. From the moment I opened the door I thought "wow"! We ...