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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have never been sober when I've kissed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hey, well I still have the whole intimacy problem. Iam with this dude for 2 months now and I've never kissed him sober. Actually I never kissed anyone sober. I dont know what my problem is and I cant get over it. Am I the only person with this ...

I'm worried about the first time and not living up to expectations!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I've been dating this girl for two and a half months, and I think we're in love. Today she asked me to come over and to finger her, but I said I couldn't because I was too nervous. I know I shouldn't be, if we really are in love then she ...

I thought everything was going well, until I heard them laughing about me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My best mate sleeps around and knows loads of guys, everyone wanting to be with her. She's overweight, spotty and generally greasy. She's taken guys off of me and every guy I've liked she's flirted with until they go to her instead. This seems to ...

Why is she holding back when I know she's attracted to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - I am certain she has feelings for me but I don't understand why she keeps them hidden. She's not in a relationship and she openly discusses her dating life with me but when I make a move she backs off? I have deliberately kept myself out of her '...

I am also worried about my sister's influence on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I am 20 and have recently moved from the country to to work in town.I have accommodation at my place of employment. My older sister works in the same town and stays in a commune. She is going out with a guy from work and introduced my to...

My boyfriend is becoming abusive...please some constructive advice...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello! I came to tis website beause i really dont know what to do anymore. Im 18, my boyfriends 19.My boyfriend of a year and 3 months was such a great guy, he never cheated on me,never cheats, never flirts with other girls,he treats me like his...

Has she gone of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: Title is Posters Original Title) hii, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!. i think my girlfriend has gone of me.... she never realy wants to kiss me if i go for a kiss all i get is a sourfaced peck, she never wants to have sex with me, but she...

I feel hurt, trashed and betrayed, I need to move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I am 34 years old. I have been in a relationship for about 11 years with a 46 years old man. Last May I found out that he was taking to this 28 years old girl, married. I spoke with him and he said he stopped. Last month I found out that not ...

She's telling me one thing while wanting something different!

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18 December 2009 (M) - ok here goes 32 yr old male here and need some advice..been with this girl for about 9 mo. now and we have had our ups and downs..i live about an hour away and have alot more responsibilities in life than her..i'm looking to settle down and find ...

He says he has moved on, so why did he kiss me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - hey me and my boyfriend split up because my dad found out that he was round when he wernt ment to be because my boyfriend is older then me im 15 and hes 17 and of cause my dad didnt really like it . And i went to see him and he kissed me then i...

ITs going too slow for me and I am worried his ex wife is on the hunt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted before but was asked for more context/ info, so I'm re-posting with more detail. I split up with my long term partner a few months ago - we broke up after a big argument which was involved some big misunderstanding then we both sai...

Did the last 12 months mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - any suggestions or comments would be grateful please so i can find closure... i met someone 3 months ago, all has been great, i do have children and the person i was dating they hadnt of met my children yet we have just been enjoying the dating and ...

I am thinking of giving my b/f a self portrait for Christmas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - hi guys this is a questin about my bf's xmas present. im a very shy person but i want to give my boyfriend a personal gift and i was going to draw a picture of myself in underwear in a type of silouhette style. the problem is i am scared he won't ...

This is THE weekend I lose my virginity, I need to prepare myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and we both decided to give our virginity to each other this Saturday night. I just want to know how should I prepare myself mentally and physically? ...

My guy wants to keep our relationship a secret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - How do i make my guy be more romantic?he never even hugs me when we are in public..i mean he never asks me out anywhere..nor does he wanna tell his friends about us! how can i make this happen without directly forcing him to tell his friends!i feel ...

Slept with 2 brothers, now what do I do if I see them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I met a man this summer and i fell for him really quickly, we had sex after a few dates and then i found out he was seeing someone. I carried on chasing him and slept with him a few more times until he stopped calling. I recently bumped into his...

I'm not sure what is the best way to approach this situation as I've never got back with an 'ex' before.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

Should we go out? How do I keep him interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I recently asked a co-worker to go with me to our job's Christmas party and he said he couldn't go (he's going back home for the holidays and will be gone for about 2 weeks). Later on, during the shift, he asked if I wanted to see a movie with him ...

Hes broke and I think hes hiding things from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend mentioned a welcome home party fro his friend this Saturday, and I told him I worked. I then suggested he pick me up from work, and we can go together. He replied with: "Maybe,I'm running low on cash though." He buys things all the damn ...

I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...

I'm friends with a guy at work but I feel there is more in the air, please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - im friends with a guy at work and because hes new ive been helping him a lot with the paperwork etc so he calls me a lot. im probably being paranoid but the last two nights ive been on the phone to him for at least 2 hours. the weird thing is i fin...

Sharing a bed with my girlfriend has become a nightmare. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm having some real problems in bed with my girlfriend, but not in the way you would immediately think. Sharing a bed with her has become a total nightmare, specifically when we stay at her flat. I'm usually awoken at nights when she pulls m...

I find it difficult to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - A couple of months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. It didn't last long, but it was the first relationship I've had that was in any way conventional or actually desired. And once we both seperated to go to university she ignored me for two ...

Three years on I haven't met his kids, aged 11 to 17, because he doesn't want to unsettle them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years,my boyfriend has four children and was seperated from his wife for 18 months before we got together,they were divorced two years ago. I can truly say that he is the love of my life and is everythi...

Do boys ever mature?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - how do i feel better? i feel guys only wanna date me to prove a point to their friends im 19 nd a virgin. my very first bf broke up with me cuz he said the relationship got boring. then he lied about sleeping with me. then i met another guy who i ...

Even though she hurt me, should I give her another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - About a month ago a girl I really liked told me she didn't think she liked me anymore. We weren't actually dating. But now, a month later she is saying she likes me again. Should I give her another chance? She hurt me really bad, and I don't want to ...

How can I make him chose me, not her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I really like and when I told him that he had told me that he felt the same way but he had a stronger connection with this other girl so he chose her instead. How can I show him that I'm the one for him and not her, and that ...

This boy takes my breath away so what should I do about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - ok...SO iv'e been liking this boy for about 4-5months now and it's funny kuz when i first saw him....my brothers had already told me stuff he said about me like"MAN I LIKE YOUR SISTER" and shes kute and more stuff and it's like when i saw him for ...

In love with housemate and time is running out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been really attracted to my house mate for months and have fallen head over heels in love with him. At times I feel like he has feelings for me, but then I think I might be imagining it. We have a great laugh together and share ...

Love distorted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - I just asked out a girl who i like very much, we have been going out for about a week now, ive heard from her that she likes me the same way. Yet she seems like she doesnt like me, and that shes imbarreses or nervous, I think she doesnt like me, and ...

Am I right to ignore him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Recently, i've been ignoring the guy i like because we got really close and then suddenly turned on me one night and started talking really nastily.... I am right in doing so? Should i just walk away from it now to save more hurt or should ...

Should I tell her again or let life go on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - there is this girl that i like and i told her on facebook she said that she had a boyfriend but im not sure if its true or not i see her almost every week at church and whenever i see her i feel like almost crying. i know that its cheesy but its ...

Will I always be alone without a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I’m turning 19 soon, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’ve never been kissed. I’ve never been on a date. I’ve never even had a guy express interest. I’ve never even heard rumors that any guys might be interested. I didn’t attend any school dances, ...