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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't know I'm bi, he thinks I'm gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi Guys!, ok I'm really really worried about a few issues in my life right now. I feel as if I've screwed up majorly and really need someones advice. I'm a bisexual guy, british, but two months ago i moved out to budapest (hungary) for a year...

What should I do about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - My life is going pretty well, I have a great boyfriend and the problems with abuse have been sorted out. But I dont know what to do about my boyfriends ex girlfriend, she is pretty jealous of me and seems to hate me, but they are still friends,...

I like this boy, I hope he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, There is this guy that goes to my skool and i really like him and i dont kno if he likes me... im way to scared to talk to him though...... what should i do???? ...

Is he right, are people at it like rabbits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I would really like to know how other people percieve sex. I was having a "discussion" about attitudes to sex with a male friend of mine, and well, lets say it got quite heated - he totally disagreed with what I think, and basically told m...

We've been a couple three days, I want to break it off already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - How do you break up with an extremely sensitive guy who claims he is IN love with you, and its like nothing he has ever felt before, bearing in mind we only started going out 3 days ago? I honestly thought I liked him, I knew he liked me a lot more...

One minute we're lovey dovey... next he doesn't care. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hiya. There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer...

Is it worth it? Should I hang in there on our way to 'exclusive'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I met the man I’m dating several months ago, at which time we started getting to know each other a little. There was minor flirting, and we admitted after a few months that we had crushes on each other. He had just gotten out of a ten-year ...

Should I wait until he realizes he was wrong or text him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy in a band for a few months now, he is incredibly sweet and treats me well but the last few days have confusing. We see each other evey weekend and during the week. When his band usually plays a show, he takes me along, ...

I would tell her how I feel but she has a boyfriend and her brother is one of my best friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college. What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolute...

I'm shy and not very good looking - how can I make her my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: You dont actually ask a question here - please feel free to resubmit but make it clear what your problem is and what you want to ask the aunts/uncles here on Dear Cupid] hi there, ok so i am in love with a girl. I am little over...

Facebook ruins relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have decided that things like facebook and myspace are definate relationship problems... I was just on fb, and I decided to send a comment to my boyfriend, because we've not really spoken today, and I saw that he'd commented on a girl's photo. ...

Its our first Christmas together, any ideas for a gift on a tight budget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - mY boyfriend is 17 im 15 and this is our first christmas toghether. He works i dont so i dont want him to spend a lot of money on a gift form me when i dont even know what to get him... what can i do? help...

Should I just get over it? Or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for two years but have recently started developing feelings for my friend and i feel i need to end things. There have been a couple of drunken nights together with this friend, and he is very sweet to me...

My boyfriend always goes home each festive season, I think he has somebody else there

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11 December 2009 (F) - hi friends i know that i can count on you,its been two years spending festive on my own and this is killing me.my boyfriend always when it is festive he always goes home i've tried to talk to him about this but he always do it and this makes me ...

Does she feel masturbating is wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Dear readers, how do I get my girlfriend to masturbate... I've told her to try it several times and said she didn't feel anything. She says she only feels it when I do it. She also doesn't like putting her finger in herself... does she not enjoy ma...

Would you tell a new partner about your bad experiences in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - After a year and a half of working through the issues my abusive ex left me with, I'm now seeing a really great guy. I'm not entirely sure how a relationship works when it doesn't revolve around me trying to make a controlling and insecure partner ...

Why does she sign her emails this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - There's a girl I like who I've been exchanging emails with. She always responds the same day I send an email and sometimes it takes me a week to write back because these are long emails and I am busy. At the bottoms of her emails she started ...

Will being out of his league cause us problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my new boyfriend for about a month and I think he's incredible. The only problem I can see is that he (and everyone else) thinks I'm way out of his league. Can something like that cause problems down the track? The guys I usually go ...

He says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 months and we haven't really gotten too physical, I mean I know he wants to but he says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually. I mean ...

Where can we go to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are high schoolers and are thinking about having sex, but we don't want to get caught or anything. We live about two miles apart so it's a bit hard to just walk over to eachothers houses. I've been trying to get him over to my ...

He asked me to masturbate in front of him but I feel so guilty doing it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to masturbate in front of him, but I've never masturbated before. I started to rub myself but I had to stop as I was overcome with guilt. He wants me to try again but I'm worried that I will start to feel guilty again. He says ...