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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I stupid for wanting to feel loved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - this may sound bad but i need help im 13 and i just broke up with this amazing guy now i kinda feel like a slut since him ive just been askin guys out and been turned down not because im ugly but cause they really dont know me now i kinda asked out ...

Should I give this other girl a chance even though I love my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to ...

I have a question for the guys???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Ok im trying to keep my virginity so is there anything that i could do sexually that guys like to do without having intercoarse?...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and torn between two lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - i am so confused. i have a boyfriend who i am not happy with. he lies,has hardly any ambition even if he works hard,he has nothing organized. i am so fed up. he has past issues with his family,is terribly ignorant and is a bit suicidal,when things ...

Can you slow down a whirl wind romance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I met this girl I'm dating on one of the matching websites and from the very first date we were amazed at our compatibility and our attraction for each other. We've been dating almost 4 months now. However, in the 4 months we've dated it's gone ...

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

How do I get rid of feelings for my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am a Female and my best friend is a male. We are completely open with each other and teall each other everything! we have been living together as students for a year and a half and will do for the next two and a half years. I dont find myself ...

If a guy says he's been really busy, has he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I met a guy from a dating site. We talked a lot over the span of two weeks. Then I went to go stay with him for the weekend. I even met his friends and family and he bought every meal for me over the weekend. He even told me, before I left, to let ...

Can you give me tips for being on-top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi, im a woman. I want to please my boyfriend. can you give me tips for being on-top? thanks...

Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (?) - Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...

My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He ...

Boyfriend's habit of taking care of "business' himself is creating problems in our sex life

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Good morning, I am having difficulties in my relationship with my boyfriend that I live with. One problem that seems to be getting bigger is our sex life. Lately, he has been masturbating before work in the shower and I know this is going on. ...

Should I end it now and wait until he is 18?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am going out with a guy that is a few years younger than me (underage). I really care about him and every day I get emotionally closer to him. I’ve never felt this comfortable with a guy before. We have the confidence to open up to each other and ...

I love him but something doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - well my boyfriend is 15yrs older than me.our relationship has been good for the most part but something is telling me that he is hiding something i.e. i never met his family or kids he has met mine i have never been to his house he claims he is in ...

I have spots but want to look good for my girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hey people just a little advice, Basically its about the classic teen problem....spots. My girlfriend is gorgeous, she thinks im cute but to be honest i dont like the fact i have spots. I know its not a huge deal but id like help with them. ...

I'm too shy to approach women I find attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - So I've been hanging out with this girl that I really like. However, when I'm with her I just don't feel "it". She's really awesome and I actually do have feelings for her. It's just that it seems like she is a better friend then a girlfriend. But ...

Professor giving us dating and courtship suggestions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hello,Guys~~ one of my professors is always telling us not to touch g girl even though she probably is you girl friend to protect her and make sure she is clean. Telling this, he also aften do some disgusting actions... The problem is that I ...

I still like to hang out with my ex, and I have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The ...

Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't, what's up with my libido/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hey guys, So I went through a depression a little over a year ago, and went without sex or sexual desires for about 1.5 years (I went through a phase where I thought I was asexual, but this definition didn’t fit, especially because I did ...

He is my first boyfriend but he doesn't make my heart race

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - So I've met this guy, and he is my offical first boyfriend. I want to make myself believe that I love him, but whenever I'm with him, my heart just doesn't seem to race. I guess he is just too perfect, I want more drama into my love life. He always ...

I have a new g/f but keep thinking about the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Ok so here the deal me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and I'm really doing fine without her. It was rough for the first month or so but it's all good now, I've started dating another girl and she really seems to like me, apretiates me for who ...

I don't see why girls like me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I don't understand why girls like me. I see myself as a terrible person to date and the more they like me the worst I feel. I feel immature and I feel like Im just no worth it, I feel like a kid inside because I cannot take care of them, obviously I ...

I am not sure if I am getting the brush off or if he is waiting for me to text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi My boyfriend is in a band, and last week had two shows in our town and then left out of state for a week. He always takes me along to the shows they play but this time I had to ask to come along, he acted weird and was drunk (I had to pay to...

She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and ...

Two breakups in one year, I KNOW I deserve better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Please help me. I've been through two horrible break-ups this year. The first was a two-year relationship, my first love, the first guy I ever slept with. The second lasted about 7 months. I wanted it to work so badly. I was in love with him...

I asked her on a date, but she said no, now I feel hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I have never gone out with anyone, and this doesnt help my confidence any. But my friends convinced me that I should ask out a girl that i talk to a lot and am very good friends with. She is in some of my classes ...

Sometimes I don't understand him, and it makes me sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm feeling down tonight. It had been a few days since I had talked to my boyfriend and I missed him greatly. I was finally able to talk to him again tonight, and everything was pretty good. But then I mentioned how I was working on a Christmas gift ...

I don't feel like I should...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for over a year. I loved him but we were very different and I knew he wasn't right for me so I broke up with him. Pretty soon afterward I met a new guy. He has all the qualities I want in a guy and we have a lot in common. The ...

What did he mean when I asked him about trust and love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I asked my boyfriend this question (If u closed your eyes and never opened them again could u trust the man/woman u love to lead u?) He replied: Could I? I'm confused please help me understand what he ment. ...

I have strong feelings for my best friend...but now hes dating someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - what would be the best thing to do if i have strong feelings for my best friend but hes started dating someone else and its killing me to stay friends with him help what should i do ??...

I really fancy this boy but I don't know if he likes me back! And what about my coworker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hey i've just started a new job not long ago, and met this guy whos really really nice and i fancy him however my friend and work colleague told me she likes him today, i havent told her i like him, but im quite upset, because shes alot prettier ...

Stay with him in an open relationship until I meet other men, or stay single and just enjoy being a mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I have a little scenario that I'm wondering if I should move one for good but I feel like I dont want to have to start all over and get to know the person. I've been with this guy for over 4 long years hes been abusive in the past so far he hasn't ...

I'm really shy and need some advice on how to make the next move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hey wondered if you could give me afew tips. Ive liked this guy for ages he a great friend to me, always thought he liked me. However things got difficult, other people got in the way and hes not the most confident person in the world. Which is ...

How do I get over this raging jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm sooo jealous! I cannot help it or stop it. Whenever my boyfriend hangs out with one of his girl friends, or when he says he is at a girls house, or whatever the situation is, this jealous green monster comes out. He does act different around ...

How can I get him back? I'm miserable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me and im so heartbroken because we are also colleagues! It hurts me so much to see him. He always treated me like his princess.. But i guess i was too demanding and always angry at him. He had enough of ...

He's suddenly treating me like dirt. What should I do about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I have known aidan for around 3 months now, and untly things have been going great, i am really attracted to him, not just on his looks but on his personality. I used to go to his, and we have exchanged passionate kisses and i have develope...