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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

It's been a long time since I felt "love that shakes you to the core" and I want that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I am 29, met a guy, 35 years old, online and we talked on the phone and emailed for a month then decided to meet. On the first date I did not feel any attraction to him but we had a great chat and he even drove me around the city do to my errands. ...

He said I'm too vocal in bed!!! I'm totally shocked by this revelation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Last night my boyfriend casually mentioned to me that I'm too vocal in bed. I'd never thought about it before and hadn't realised I was particulaly loud. The way he said it was very patronising and embarrassed me greatly, it has really knocked my ...

Is he lying to me? WAS something going on behind my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are driving and his phone keeps ringing, he asked me to answer if I wanted. I did and it was a female who says she had the wrong number. I questioned who she was calling for and she said her cousin gave her the number. I asked ...

We're back together again but now her family hates me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years now. 8 months ago I cheated on her with an ex girlfriend through a one night stand. She was hurt so in return she cheated on me with a friend. We chose to forgive each other and move ...

I can't figure out what to get him for Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some help. Me and my boyfriend have been going out since October and im not sure what to get him for christmas. We are both 13 and I don't know what to get him. He loves playing guitar and writing songs. He plays xbox360 and like spo...

His weight gain is causing me to find him less attractive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help me. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. The problem is that I am finding him more and more less attractive as the days go by. I find myself feeling so guilty about this and I don't usually base ...

Am I wrong? Should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months today, in the beginning it was fine, (isn't it always) and maybe 2 or 3 weeks into the relationship he asked me to do something sexual and I told him I didn't want to, well he got really ...

How do we meet other couples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - how can me and my boyfriend meet other couples to go out with and things? Im at college, hes at uni. VERY few/none of our already existing close friends have partners, any ideas? x...

How to get thru to my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have only been with my man for 2 months. It was all going great - I had met all his family he said he liked me unlike any other girl he had been with. but then a week and a half ago he told me he felt weird and needed some time to think. S...

Are relationships just about love or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about six months ago, but all the feelings are still there. Lately he and I have been talking about getting back together, but I told him I wanted to wait to meet up in person and see where things stand (I'm at school 800 miles ...

I was perfectly happy with the new guy before my ex came back..now I'm questioning everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I am torn between two men. One is my ex, who broke up with me a month ago. We were together for 3 years, and he was deployed for the last year. He evaluated our relationship while over there are decided to end it prior to coming home. He said he ...

Does he love me back the way I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, So my question is... Does he love me? He says he loves me but how can you really tell... Well let me start from the beginning. We have been dating for 4 months and we try to see each other as much as possible... sometimes we don't ...

Should I go against her advice and buy her a Christmas gift?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Ive been "seeing" this girl for a couple weeks now, we hang out a lot, sleep over, bring each other food to work etc.., basically we get along very well and she has told me she likes me, but she is in the middle of a divorce and told me she dosent ...

Love takes time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - It seems so many people spend their time wanting to find that right person, many of us feel terrible 21st century pressure to be in love and to be loved. What strikes me is how many completely meaningless relationships people are willing to have for...

He always wants to make a go of it when he is drunk, but then never remembers what he said the next day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy now for about 3 months and firstly when i gave him my number, after months of saying no, i didn't really see anything between us other than friendship. But he told me right from the very start that he's liked me for ...

Does he still have feelings for me or is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Ok, i met this guy Jeremy and we hooked up 3 days later so we stayed together for a while but the problem is he broke up wit this girl Allie and he talked about how distant they where and how happy he was with me, so he went around telling everybody ...

He thought I was playing games, so now I think he is playing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen"...I think the guy I like is doing this to me, cuz the past few weeks he was really attentive towards me and showing huge interest..then all of a sudden he is ignoring me...I also think he got this advice from ...

Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong i...

The shine has worn off our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Wanted some help, me and my ex started our relationship really happy and we were for about a year and a half then we started arguing and got worse till we were arguing almost everyday over things that didnt even matter. She is very insecure and ...

I am frustrated because I cant decide if he likes me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - dear people of dear cupid, i feel i have a massive problem, but before i tell let me just say i am 15 and never had a boyfriend. my problem is that i feel that i am in love with the guy at school he is really nice most people tell me just to tell ...

She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly...

I bought gifts for his sick mother but he still doesn't want me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi all, Hope i will get a good help here. It has been like 2 months and sth since my r/ship with my 6 years boyfriend started to shake.We loved and love eachother so much, we used to constantly talk about a future together and we were planning to...

Is this what a normal relationship is like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in love with my BF about 2 years +, I feel my relationship is not normal. He is a White guy and he is a Boss of one factory in asian (Switzerland), I am Asian girl (Chinese), he always told me their culture in Switzerland is d...

My ideas of my ideal man are very vague, I can't decide what I want

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I need a little advice. I realized today that my string of bad relationships has never given me the opportunity to see what it's like to be treated well by a man. I have no idea what it feels like. I've considered joining a dating website to see ...

I really, really like her, but does she like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - how do i know if she likes me? ok so i met this girl and now we are good friends but it seems like if she likes me i like her but i dont know if she likes me we flirt like everyday and she always gets close to me as if she wants me to hold her o...

We are going to wait for sex, but maybe I should give him a little taste test!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Ok... So I have many questions about me and my 19 year old bf. this one us goin to be a alittle different. We have been togegter thru alot and and I mean alot, well I think that I want to tell him to wait to have sex until we are ready again, I ...

How do I find the RIGHT kind of woman...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

How long should I wait before we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a virgin I have a boyfriend who is 24 years old and we have only been going out for a while I do want to end up having sex with him but I am kind of scared but also at the same time I don't know how long we...

I am love with a co worker, and don't know how to let her know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - hello i need help on this i am in love with this coworker but she work in front of the house i work in the back how can i tell her i am in love with her? or ask her out? i dont want to ask her at the job. but how can i do this? she is single! ...

I still love my girl but have cooled off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - So, I"m 17 and my girlfriend of 11 months is 16. We're almost at our 1 year anniversary and I can't shake the fact that my feelings for her are swinging up and down. I've never been so confused in my life. I love this girl but at the same time I ...

I want to ask my date to be in a really funny way ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - So I need help, the winter formal at my school is in 2 weeks and I want to ask my date-to-be in a really funny way, I'm willing to embarass myself haha. Any ideas?! Thank you!...

My girlfriend wants an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Hey all, I've been off and on here various times these last few months, seeking random tidbits of advice for my ongoing relationship with my gf. Let me start off with a bit o' history. Notably, answers from the 'net have barely helped and in my...

I have forgiven him, but was I just gullible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My bf and I have worked through so much in the last six years and finally this last school year (he is actually graduating in a few days and I have another semester) we have had the time to do a lot of fun things. We pretty much live at my place, ...

My relationship is already rocky and my ex "wants to catch up"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - I am trying to make my shaky relationship with my girlfriend work. We've had lots of financial problems and trouble communicating. Things had been going pretty well and getting better and better and I was feeling really good. Today I ran in...

She fulfills my fantasies but wont be my girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - We were together for 4 years. I see her frequently. It seems like we're dating again exclusively, but she "doesn't want a boyfriend right now." So, she started talking dirty to me one night, and we got into it. It was weird at first, so I stopped. ...

He asks me for my movements but then doesn't act on the information!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy last Friday and he got my number. We hung out again Saturday night. I live about 45 minutes away from him and I'm in college. Monday I came home for Thanksgiving break. He told me to tell him when I got into town. I did... two nights ...

I am only 17 so I told her I was older

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - OK story time! Here I go... I met a girl the other day who I got along well with and we have been messaging back and forth since; she is 19. I feel like an ass I said I was 18 when I'm really only 17; anyways I am going to be 18 in like 3 months. I ...

I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 and I have no idea what to get him for Christmas! He likes football, wrestling, nascar, etc. But, I have no idea what to get him what so ever. Any advice?...