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Archived questions from: 26 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I wait and hope or try to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - i fell in love like probley last christmas i met him on the 12 of december at work an he was the most amazing guy we were always firlting an i fell for him an he love me just he was going to the amry an i felt my heart just drop. so on the 15th of ...

I really like this girl and want to ask her out but I have been thinking about my ex lately....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Here's what she does: I sit next to her and she always puts her feet very close to mine, so much it makes me uncomfortable. She doesn't do it to others. Once, she had her leg touching mine, noticeably. I moved away, but put it back touching ag...

How do I go about meeting the right girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i...

Need advice on meeting someone, who likes me for ME.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I just cant win. Men have told me to hold back when giving sex-but when one holds back then a man isn't interested in getting to know you! If I hold back they automatically think I am looking for a husband (I am divorced and dont want a husband) ...

How often should I email him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - How often is it ok to e mail a male friend youve recently met-no romance but has given his e mail to you without being too desperate?? What sort of things does one put in an e mail when you like him but dont want to scare him off? Thanks ...

Want to have a real relationship and need tips on how to go about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Helloo Well from since i can remember ive been the same but in the last few months ive realised how much of a loner i am. I have not many friends and NO REAL friends. Ive never had a girlfriend and dont think im anywhere close. I fuelled ...

Is this situation with Andy, hopeless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - hey guys and girls. my name is amanda. im new to this site, im 14 and hopelessly in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. this guy, we'll call him andy, has a girlfriend but hes in love with both of us. he chooses her over me but hes so adorable and ...

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

What do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I are somewhat of an on and off couple, but thats mainly because of our parents. Anyways we're both 14 and for this christmas he got a me silver heart necklace with a purple gem in it. We had just started goin back out a couple ...

How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I really need advice on aproaching a girl.I'll just explain my situation first.I'm 16 and female,I dont much care for labels,all I know is I definatly like girls,and I definaltly like guys.I had a boyfreind not long ago bout found it very..very ...

I am worried about having sex with my boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - right, im nearly 14 and i have a boyfriend. hes older than me, hes 15. hes not a virgin and we do talk about having sex alot. he has fingered me but he only fit 1 finger up and i am very scared of the pain if he does have sex with me, im also scared ...

I am in the friend zone and want to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Oh what am i to do? and why do i get myself in these situations? Ive been talking to a girl for a few weeks whom ive known for a while but just started to actually get to know.. i feel theres chemistry there but she has a boyfriend.. one who she ...

Will my boyfriend's faith break us apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and recently he is becoming religious and being distant. he is a muslim and recently started listening to a lecture (unknown) about their religion and i think it influences him a lot. he told me ...

Girlfriend (Ex at this point?) likes another man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - To make a long story short, me and my girlfriend basically got into a really stupid argument. The argument consisted of her yelling at me, calling me names (stupid, retard, etc) and she basically said my view on the world was stupid. So in my ...

My ex-friend is a back stabbing slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - How can I convince my ex-mate that I'm not a backstabber and that she's done worse and what I did wasn't bad. If I am in the wrong please tell me. My ex-mate (I'll call her K) K dated this guy for approx 5 days, within this 5 days she told mo...

I feel like crying, its so confusing :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Basically a guy attended my school for about a month and we became good friends but then he left and moved to a different city. We still have contact thru facebook but i really miss him. Hes had 2 girlfriends since he left and always coming to me ...

Why can't he distance himself from his ex completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - hello i have been seeing this guy for 1 year now. he is really sweet and nice to me but the problem is he can't distance himself from his ex. They were seeing each other for 5 months till she dumped him and it tool him 2 years before he finall...

Too much too soon, how to tell him without hurting him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Hi All, Ok, so I'm in a relationship with this guy, Josh. He's a really nice guy and I enjoy the time we spend together. The only problem is, I feel the relationship is moving way too fast. I'm like a rabbit in headlights and I want to run away...

Gone for 5 weeks and no contact why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - i met my arab boyfriend 5 years ago he was in uk on training with air force he has to go home at certain times like rammadan , he is from saudi arabia and treats me like gold dust. 1st time he went he contacted me all the time 2nd time maybe three ...

Wait till school starts or just kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started going out on the last day of school, which was a week ago, and we havn't seen eachother since then, but we are going to see eachother in a few days. I really like him, and I want to kiss him, but because we havn't done ...

Best friend slept with my girl and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - im 17 and ive been dating this girl for about two months. shes 15 and has made mistakes in her life, she has a baby girl, but i really liked her. people told me the child shouldnt matter. before we started datin she had a crush on my best friend. ...

I seem to dwell in a hole of lonliness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I'm 35 years old. I had a great childhood but once I hit puberty I became depressed (at the time I just thought I was going through a stage). I was mildly depressed through college. After college I was mildly depressed. People cannot see this ...

She is willing to give me one more chance but I'm afraid it won't work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Hey, i really need help. I am very lost. My girlfriend wanted a break because we had a big fight. basically i bottled up anger about something that was bothering me about her and vented all out on her, threatening to break up. She broke down and c...

Should I take her word that he doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - im 13 and i really like this guy who is a year younger than me. his sister (my bffl) knows that i like him but she keeps telling me that he dosent like me. idk if shes telling me the truth. should i ask him if he likes me or should i just ta...

Should I tell him I like him if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. Me and him are really close though. We flirt all the time, and he treats me like were going out, and he's the nicest to me. He's showing signs he likes me, but do I tell him I like him? ...

What can I do about this "cousin relationship"?

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26 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone ,merry Christmas !!! 4 years ago i went out with this guy # 1 but then we broke up.It took me a while to get over him but i did. At some point because i was going to the same univ as my cousin we decided to rent an apart together...

He gives mixed responses. Is he for real or just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - hi I don't know if this guy is player or he is genuine? should I drop him? when I decided to move away I started a casual relationship with him because I was going away for good and wont have to deal with it. I know he was sleeping with ...

Is this a little sign she might like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - I told a girl last night that I 'kinda like' her and she said 'aww :p you are such a cutie') Im just wondering if this is a little sign she may like me back? We have been talking for nearly two months now, we live far away from each other so we...

Head over heals for my coworker!

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26 December 2009 (F) - what do y9u do if youre working with someone you adore and they dont know-its not as easy to tell them as they have a casual girlfriend but im head over heels in love with my work friend-what should i do...