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Dating: Help and advice

Crush on my co-worker the Principal

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2 December 2009 (F) - I am a manager at my college and have a serious crush on my Principal. He is so warm and apporpachable. He is in his fifties but I think he is handsome. whenever he sees me he double takes me. I feel there is a mutural attraction there. I wo...

How to say "you're ok but I don't fancy you?

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2 December 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody, Apparently a woman I have recently met through a female friend "likes me". Although I don't know how much, she is the same age as me (46). I have spoken to her a couple of times and she seems OK and looks like she likes a laugh an...

He dumped me for something that happened when I wasn't even with him!!!

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2 December 2009 (F) - What did I do to deserve this? My boyfriend dumped me over some web posts he found. The funny thing is that those posts are from like 5 years ago! Whereas we have been dating for 3 years. That means, those posts are from BEFORE I met him! We h...

How to make her trust me more?

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2 December 2009 (M) - hello, well i just need ur advice on how to get the trust of the girl i like which i do and its not a lie !!, ok i know her for a while now, we are almost together, i like her and she likes me back and everything is going well between...

Did I bring all this on myself?

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2 December 2009 (F) - When i was going out with my boyfriend, we went through this phase of him liking someone else. And after a while, we got back together, after he apologized and he came back. So some time later, we were kissing and making out and stuff and then i ...

He wants the benifits of marriage without the piece of paper

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2 December 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm a woman of 35 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. I have never lived with anyone but he has been married before (amicable breakup though, a long time ago). He wants us to sell our properties and live togethe...

He's cheated on me 8 times. Will he grow out of it?

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2 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is extremely attractive, like the hottest boy I have ever laid eyes on in my life. He's got the tightest body made of solid muscle and the cutest face and he is sooooooooo much the best sex I have ever had a million times over. The only ...

I've been cheating, but only out of politeness!

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2 December 2009 (?) - I'd been going out with my boyfriend for one and a half years when he cheated on me with my best friend. That was 2 months ago. I saw them kissing at school (needless to say I am only just forgiving my friend). He immediately stopped seeing and ...

I was planning to lose virginity to my b/f when my male friend kissed me

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2 December 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and feel that we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins and believe that you should only have sex with someone you love. The date was set for last night. He tried to make it really ...

B/f was depressed, wanted a break and now he wants me back

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2 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. he's been depressed recently and i don't know what is causing it and he says he doesn't either. Shortly afterwards we took a break so he could date the co worker he liked. they were together ...

I'm crushed... was I not good enough for him?

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2 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I was going out with this guy for a little over 3 months, at the start he really liked me and got into a relationship with me straight away. I hit it off with his best mates too and they said it was so strange that he introduced me to them as ...

I saw my best friend and my boyfriend getting it on together!!! What to do?

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2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when ...

Am I selfish for wanting more affection from my boyfriend?

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2 December 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend coming up to 3 years, i love him so much. I've had moments where i've wondered if i do really love him or if i do want to be with him, but the fact is he's the best thing thats ever happened to me, and i know i don't want ...

Would he be happier on his own, without me?

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2 December 2009 (F) - I'm in a weird situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years 4 months. We've had our ups and downs, like any couple, and he's a really sweet guy in most circumstances. We have lived together since February. We moved into a small apartment ...

He offered his ex his spare room should she ever need it! Is this normal?

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2 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's ex is down and he offered her his spare room if she ever needs it. Should this weird me out? Because it really does!...

Why is she now like this?

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2 December 2009 (M) - Hello I think the honeymoon period is over in my relationship. After a wonderful 5 months my girl has changed. She is happy for me to see buddies, my family and is not the jealous type but in other ways I feel so criticised She says I put the d...

Why has he never mentioned this girl to me before???

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2 December 2009 (F) - Hello people. I know its crazy to ask help in public like this but I'm seriously in a state where i find myself helpless. My age is 25 and i am in a relationship with a man aged 29. we are in a live in relationship. I fell for him in march 2009 an...

What do to for the best? Should I confront him?

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2 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is cheating on me. I followed him from home one night and I know where she lives. I want to confront this girl but I don't know that to do. If I confront her I will lose him altogether but if I don't I can always use this as blackmail ...

I'm in love with a guy that made me cry more than once... What do do?

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2 December 2009 (F) - About a year ago I dated a guy who I'll call Dave. Dave and I dated for a little over a year and we were very much in love. All was well until I accused him of cheating. He didnt take it very well so he broke up with me because he felt I was too ...

Why am I overreacting so much about all of this?

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2 December 2009 (F) - okayyy, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we get on amazing but his ex issues seriously bother me. she tried breaking us up until she got a bf of her own a couple of months ago, but im still majorly iunsecure. Everything was great until i ...

I'm getting married and I'm very sad. Why am I feeling like this? Red flag???

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2 December 2009 (F) - I'm getting married. But i'm very sad. I don't know why. I'm anxious and very scared about marrying this man. I love him, but i am scared that im making a mistake. I feel alone for some reason. We went to get our Marriage License the other day ...

Help me to write this love letter...

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2 December 2009 (F) - hi, i need a little help.. my boyfriend is going away overseas on a business trip. i would like to write him a love letter before he goes letting him know how much i love him and miss him already. i know kind of old school... im not exactly sure ...

She wants some space to see if she misses me...

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2 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 months broke up with me because i was very jealous and it got to the point of beginning of arguments. 2 weeks after the break up i began counselling and was letting her know about it. she still loves me and i still love her. She ...

Is there another side to my boyfriend that I'm unaware of???

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2 December 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known he ...

Shall I leave him to it or fight for my man?

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2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years we have been through so much. i got drunk a week ago and apparently kicked him out but i dont remember that. i texed, rang and never got any response then last night a week after this all happened he said ...

I lied to my girlfriend...

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2 December 2009 (M) - I met a girl at work about 6 months ago and my friend told her i was in the military cause she liked military guys.... we didnt start hanging out or talking till 3 months after that and like an idiot i kept up with the lie. we started dating and ...

Because of my past I'm overprotective of g/f

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2 December 2009 (M) - I got a problem that prevents me from having a relationship. about a couple years ago my ex was murdered when I made her come down to my house and she was raped and killed on the way over. I loved her. it took some about 2 years but I started dating ...

He saw a photo taken before we met and flipped!

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2 December 2009 (F) - im one of those troubled by a recent broken relationship after about 1.5 yrs and i dont know what to do. it was VERY suprising and sudden for both of us, he saw a pic of me before we met with some guys and he flipped and left. he wanted to be ...

My b/f sends me poetry, but he doesn't write it himself!

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2 December 2009 (F) - Every so often, in an e-mail my bf will send me a poem. Call me a skeptic or whatever, but I usually google the first few lines to see if this was original or if he copied it from somewhere else. Most of the time, they're copied from somewhere e...

I want to date her but am worried about what will happen if I then dump her

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2 December 2009 (M) - I've been talking to a girl recently after a terrible long-term relationship of mine ended. This new girl is kind, loving, quiet, and has a heart of gold, but she also has flaws. She was raped as a child by her own mother and her mother's countless ...

I am in love with a player who doesn't give a damn

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2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my guy for five years. He refuses to agree to have a monogamous relationship but says that I am the only one. I have knowledge that he has cheated several time. He wont say that he loves me but wont say that he dosent. Our lives are ...

I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast

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2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from ...

I am marrying one man, while pining for another

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2 December 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I know how to go about explaining myself and I'm sorry for making this too lengthy but it is a long story. Here it goes: Before you start there are a few things you need to know about me:1) I am from a culture where family is everyt...

We met online, we met in person, now I hear nothing from him, why?

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2 December 2009 (F) - I've been out of the dating scene for a while, anyway, i met a guy online, and we went out on saturday and chatted in a bar for 3.5 hours, i knew he was interested because he kept reaching over the table to hold my hand, or touch me, he would stare ...

I was Drunk and Dancing and am now on facebook

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2 December 2009 (F) - when u go to a party and people take picturez of u dancing when u were really drunk! and posted them on myspace and a guy u like saw them he parties too but always knew u as a good girl does girls that like to drink and party develop like a bad ...

How do I know what is more important

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2 December 2009 (F) - Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...

I want to go back to the way things were before we split

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2 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we broke up about a month 1/2 ago. we love each other very much. we were living together. we had a good relationship, but also had fights. we even bought a car together last years and still have ...

We want to explore but not have sex

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2 December 2009 (M) - What would be some fun things for me and my girlfriend to do, without having sex, but things to do with some of that sort. Like exploring each other in an intimate way. We are both up for it but we dont have any ideas. Any one out there have any...

I worry a lot about his commitment to our relationship

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2 December 2009 (F) - hey there i have another problem, i have the hardest time trusting my bf, he tells me he is so in love with me and that im the only one, but then he tells me i wouldnt trust you if i were you you and i ask him why and he says look at how much tro...

Cold shoulder or brush off, I just don't know

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2 December 2009 (F) - this guy i like has been showing huge interest in me the past few weeks, and then today he was trying to not look at me...I don't feel like he is running from me or totally giving me the cold shoulder, but I just don't understand what happened that ...

I think I am his stop-gap girl

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2 December 2009 (F) - Recently I was dating a guy for two months. Instantly we connected. He immediately asked me for another date after our first date. He called me everyday, texted me everyday, and we saw each other maybe 2-3 times a week. We became intimate a little ...

He looks at other girls and I'm not sure he's fully committed like I am!

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2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both know we love each other everyday, and I know he means it. However, I tell him things like "I only want to be with you and nobody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with you because ...

He broke up a week before moving to my city

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2 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. I have been with a guy for about 15 months now, however most of this ( over a year) has been long distance, as he moves about for work each year. He is due to move to the same city as me in 3 days time! I thought everything was f...

Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed

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2 December 2009 (?) - 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...

He is blowing hot and cold and I am left confused

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2 December 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a year and everything in our relationship was great. We were loving and romantic to eachother and the physical part was good too. Then during the last month of our relationship he was acting weird like not saying i love you ...

I want sex all the time and I don't want too!

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2 December 2009 (M) - well i have a problem me and my girlfriend have started having sex resently and ever since we had our first time together i cant quit wanting sex with her or anyone i am like always horny now and this has been going on for like a week now can ...

He wants me to sleep over but we have never dated!

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2 December 2009 (F) - A friend recently introduced me to a man (57 yrs. old). He invited me for dinner at his house along with my friend. He is a gentleman. The problem or what I see as a problem is that he keeps asking me over to cook dinner for me and then wants me to ...

I think he is setting me up for a night of sex

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