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writes:If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im supposed to be..... what do i do in my situation?? Reply to this Question
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reader, pril +, writes (30 December 2009):
Well if I was u I wouldn't say any thing. For 2 reasons 1.it will make ur friend think different. I had 2 of my friends that where bi hit on me and it freaked me out. I was still friends with them but it wasn't the same after they hit on me. 2. Men r wierd about things like that he may run. But if u to r really close friends and if u think he can handel the fact ur bi,then tell him u r. And see how he acts. But I'm not sure I would tell him u have a crush on him.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (30 December 2009):
I don't think it would be out of the question to tell him about your sexual orientation but revealing your feelings for him specifically is certainly not a good idea. And really unless your in a situation where him knowing your orientation would be a necessary I would bother telling him. Just enjoy what you do have with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 December 2009):
I'm afraid all you can do is try to move on. If he's straight, he won't be interested and he might be a bit shocked. You'll find someone. Work on getting over him and you'll get there.
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