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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I ask a sophmore out?

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22 December 2009 (M) - I am fourteen years old, and there is this really pretty, and nice girl who sits next to me in Geometry. She is a sophmore and turning 16 in February. Should I ask her out? I feel like she flirts with me, but it might be wishful thinking. Please ...

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

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22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...

Did he mean what he said about my private parts or was he really joking?

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22 December 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I were in a fight and I was making fun of the size of his penis. Then he said well what do you call that stuff sticking out of you. He meant my labium majus. I asked him about it later when we had made up. He said he was just joking ...

Too many women in my life....

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22 December 2009 (F) - So I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian, I've dated guys but i've always had stronger feelings for girls, lately I have had a crush on my teacher who is 26 and my cousins friend who is 15, I'm also in a relationship that is going down hill very fast. I'm ...

Found nude photos of another girl on my boyfriends camera!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So, I found on my boyfriends camera, in his backup memory, a couple photos of a girls VAGINA in his car. I could see her face in the reflection of the mirror in it and I recognize her as a girl I am aquantances with and don't really like. I knew he ...

He's been full on hot, now gone a bit cold, wtf? But tells me he wants to be with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Ok - to cut a long story short - Dating guy, taking it slow as both recently-ish out of relationships. He's a nice guy who's been completely and totally f***ed over by his last 2 GF's. I'm a nice, normal girl. All is going well, both of...

My boyfriend is so lazy, I feel like his mother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - my bf seem so lazy all the time and im starting to feel like his mother. when i ask him to do anything he take weeks to do it. for a few examples i asked him 7 weeks ago if i left one of my fave tops at his and he still not looked, 8 months ago i ...

I asked him if he was gay and he stopped talking to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - ok so here is my problem... so was in a realationship for 7 months... i actually had real feelings for this guy... we stopped talkin on my birthday in nov.. cause i heard that he was gay.. when i asked him about he told me he wasnt gay and that i ...

He asks his kids for info on his ex... Should he be doing that?

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22 December 2009 (F) - I've been w/ the guy I'm dating now for almost 3 years. He has children from a previous relationship that ended over 10 years ago. I have no kids. Alot of times when we pick up his kids for the weekend he is always asking them certain questions and ...

I met him, really like him, he flirted, then I found out he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I recently went to a close friends house Party this was the first time i went out in weeks. I never really see much of my friends since they are all at collage. At my friends house Party I met this guy. I never seen him before So i asked my friend ...

Hooked up with my neighbor, who happens to be a woman, and married... oh, and he was there too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - This is the strangest thing for me to talk about, but I have no one to talk to about it, literally, so I've come here. My neighbor is also my best friend. She's married and has kids. In the past she was gay (for 5 years) and we've always jok...

Is my boyfriend insecure and following the masses?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend insecure? You see, he's a very nice, sweet, low profile, smart guy. Really down to earth with most things, he's like the perfect guy! But there's one thing that kind of bothers me... Sexually it's like he's been brainwashed by t...

I can't get over him & it's killing me

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22 December 2009 (F) - I have not long ago came out from a 2 year relationshp with the most wonderful guy. The relationship wa sunexpected at first and it was pretty weird how we met suppose things like that happend. We were friends at first then I found out he start to ...

His family won't let him marry her because of their religion

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22 December 2009 (F) - hi thier is one guy whose relationship has been ended with his girlfriend since the girls parents dont allow her to marrya person who is not of their caste he is my friend from childhood and he also has purpose me in school days but due to my ...

The romance has gone! Does he love me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - my partner makes me feel so worthless, i want things to change but no they are never going to but still cling on. we got together a year ago, there is 32 yrs between us (i'm 18 but that's not the problem). it was love at first sight and i know he ...

I need help making sense of the events, which caused our break up, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - My g\f (now ex) was not jealous, possessive, aggressive and didn’t mind me seeing friends\family but was so controlling in other ways, especially domestically. I couldn’t wash up properly, clean properly, make the bed, i was clumsy, a grot etc. If ...

He broke up with me 3 days before Christmas, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Yesterday my boyfriend came home from a ski trip. When he came back he told me we should break up. He said that the reason was that he felt like more of just a friend then a boyfriend and that it was better for him. I told him we can try and fix it. ...

How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while ...

Is he too young for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - one of my friends on facebook asked me to add there brother coz they wanted me to add them so i did (on 12 December) and then as we started chatting. he then said that he could not help his feelings for me so i just replied ok coz i didnt know what ...

Should I leave my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hello all I am writing because I do not know what to do about my relationship. I met a lovely girl, actually on a dating website (which was new to me). We have now been together for around 5 months. The relationship is for the most par...

Do girls like red headed guys?

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22 December 2009 (M) - Hi im 20 year old guy,and im a natural red head, my question is do girls like red headed guys or do they find them a turn off?...

He often jokes about me getting pregnant and I'm beginning to wonder...?

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22 December 2009 (F) - About a year ago I met and got involved with a really great guy. He told me right away that he had a vasectomy, but seemd startled when I told him I couldn't get pregnant because I had an IUD. The IUD occasionally caused me some mild discomfort ...

How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job ...

Should I wait to have sex?

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22 December 2009 (?) - I have been dating the same man for 2 years now. We have been friends for several years before that. I am 19, in college and still a virgin.My question is for those who have had sex and are married, do you think that it would have been more special ...

Am I scared or just being smart?

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22 December 2009 (F) - I met a wonderful guy about 3-wks ago and I feel that he is moving entirely too fast. He is about 9-yrs my senior. Has been married x 4 (now divorced 8-yrs). *He says he is crazy about me *He wants me to move with in with him *It seems he only...

What's a good present for your friend-with-benefits?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy at work during the summer and we've been in what could be considered a casual relationship for the past 5months, meaning that we have a sexual relationship but we also do just hang out and talk. It's very relaxed, no obligations. ...

I'm 18 she is 14 we need some legal advise

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22 December 2009 (M) - i am turning 18 soon. my girlfriend is 14. we live in pennsylvania. we have been dating for a month. i was told i can be arrested for sexual harassment and be a registered sex offender for dating a minor, even so much as kissing her. is there a way ...

He says he'll wait for me, but can I trust him?

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22 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend 20 we been dating for almost 10 months officaly but we been talkinng over a year now. he knows everything about me n i about him..im a jelous freak also n he is a lil only. He says sweet stuff once in a while. I ...

Is he feeling me or not?

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22 December 2009 (F) - i like this guy in my math class,he used to sit infront of me but now his in the back one seat away from me. i get confusing vibes from him. at first i thought he moved to talk to me but some girl in the class sits right by him,he always flirts wit ...

I think he likes me back but I'm not certain.

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22 December 2009 (F) - ok so heres the problem. theres this guy, who i have managed to really open upto and feel really strongly about. we have a great time when we are together, and im constantly craving his company, the thing is that we ...

Will my family reject my girlfriend?

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22 December 2009 (M) - I have been dating my gf for about half a year, but last night when one of my cousins heard who i am dating is that girl she reject my dating. My cousin thought my gf doesn't match me, for she is a little short. Further more, my cousin told me ...

Is it the winter blues that have me wanting to stay home with a mug of hot chocolate and a longing for someone to cuddle up with?

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22 December 2009 (F) - My problem is i cannot seem to find a nice or decent boyfriend. i really want a guy i can settle into a relationship with for a while now, i have done a lot of dating (i know im still quite young but i have been with quite a few guys) (please do...

Wait for him? Or propose myself?

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22 December 2009 (F) - I am 18 and my bf is 19. We have been dating for 1 yr and 3 months and we have lived together for 6 months. We love each other very much and have talked about getting married and having kids together. I want to marry him so badly. How long sho...