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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He is making my drinking an issue, and says he cant trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over nine months, and just recently my drinking has begun to cause problems. One I start, I cannot stop and I have said and done hurtful things to him in the past when I was under the influence. Jut ...

He states he loves me, but his actions say different! Should I just leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - my bf says that he luvs me but often times he makes me feel like im just a roommate. We r hardly intimate or there is nothing that feels like luv coming from his end. he says he luvs me,but to me his actions show me differently. should i leave or ...

This girl I am seeing is a maniac! I need to be rid of her..help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - i am with a girl since a year now. it was great but now she has started dominating me big time. always suspects me of cheating on her. she HAS to check my phone every time. she WANTS all my passwords(email, facebook, bank accounts etc). she doesn't ...

He's no longer my professor, so should I pursue a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm a student in college, and this semester I got to know a professor who offered to help me with another professor's class, because I was having difficulty understanding the material on my own. Over the course of the semester, I went to this ...

Having doubts about my current relationship..how do I get my bf to hear me out on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months. We both started going to different universities this year, and I had to move and rent a house far from where he lives in order to study to that university. At first I felt really excited t...

Should we take this dating relationship to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I`m in a relationship about two months and I`m really happy with my boyfriend. He is the first guy I ever let him to touch me or something like that. It`s not that I didn`t have anyone before him, but I think he is much special then my other dates. ...

I like this guy from work..we get along very well. But..is he sincere or dodgy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're...

The way my bf acts around other girls...really hurts me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 1 year now and i have tried to tell him that the way he acts around other girls makes me feel like he doesnt care how i feel or if it hurts me but he does it anyways, what am i supposed to do? I love him and i dont ...

Help! He's going back to his old ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - me and my bf have been close lately considering what we have been through recently n hes tryed to put my feelings first but ive noticed that hes slipping back to his old ways, going out all the time and coming home drunk, only tells me he loves me ...

Why did this guy suddenly stop calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - In September I started college and started casually seeing a guy that was living near me. We had both been hurt in the past and agreed that we were both happy to keep it casual. Things were fine for 2 months and then he suddenly stopped talking to ...

My Dad's gf is threatening to leave him and I don't want her to! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) - This is really hard for me so here it goes. Well I feel as if my dad and his fianceé are always arguing. Today I did not mean to but I heard what they were saying and she(we will call her Alli) is crying. They were arguing and Alli was talking about ...

I don't want to be his 2nd choice....how do I tell him without pushing him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - So I met this guy at school (college). We text every now and then, and we occasionally have some makeout sessions in his room. We've never had sex, but we've come really close. Over time, i've stronger feelings for him. We were hanging out the other ...

Could it be all he wants is sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My fiance has asked me like once or twice if we were to ever break up could we be "Friends with Benefits". Why would he ask me this? What am I supposed to say? He says if we were to ever break up he would not come back to me, and he's also said that ...

Relationship too intense, too fast now g/f wants break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - About a month ago I met the most amazing girl, smart attractive, easy going, pretty much everything that I wanted in a woman. After two weeks she told me that she loved me and that I was her soul mate. I feel the same way. I am the first person she ...

Not in committed relationship but jealous that he's seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i dont like getting in a relashionship cause i always end up crying and getting hurt. its been 6 months since i havent dated but i have been "friends" with alot of guys kissing..just kissing and messing around but not losing my virginty!! ok so this ...

Should I say something and see if he tries to get me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Ok, this may be a long one! So I'll be grateful for any help! I'm 15, and I met this guy who was 18. He text me etc, we saw each other a few times and spoke on msn, and I already new of him because I know a lot of his mates. I went to his 18th and ...

Her boyfriend invited me to a gangbang with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I was in a relationship with a girl for the past two years. I was sincere. I had sex with her only once.. but I wanted to do it again. Recently she broke up with me and started a relationship with another guy. But she still calls me and ...

Family doesn't want me to be with him because he's not rich

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12 December 2009 (F) - I am 26 years old.My boyfriend and i have been in a seroius relationship since 2005.My mom and my sister don´t want me to be with him because he is not rich.A week ago,my boyfriend told me to go to Portugal to go live with him but first i should ...

It is just too late? Or should I try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hi guys, maybe you could help me figure this out! Im sorry this may get long....I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now and when we first became friends he was into me and eventually asked me out. I did not feel the same way and so i...

Everything is a mess! Dad threatened my boyfriend and I haven't heard anything from him since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - [Mod: Stated age incorrect poster is 15] hey im 15 and my ex is 17 We broke up because my dad caught him round mine when he wasnt aloud(We wernt doing anything just sitting there chatting) and my dad phoned his mum up and started shouting at ...

How do I get him to stop acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Dear GirlShrink, Me and my boyfriend have been broken up for 3 months. And hes in a new "relationship" already, although i think its clearly not that after the break up he spent most of his time with this girl thats always just been his friend, ...

I can't figure him out, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and started seeing him at work every day. I like to flirt and he was receptive and flirted back with me. He started getting me little gifts every once in a while and acting interested, but sometimes he didn't seem into me ...

Please Help! My jealousy is ruining my relationships and I have lost custody of my son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is [Mod: Removed to protect Identity]. I need help from someone. I'm going thru alor right now over my baby daddy. He broke up with me in feb.of 09'. And we were together for almost 4 years. We have a 2 yrs old son together. Well I tend ...

I like this boy so much, but he just confuses me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for more than half the year now. Ever since i met him i felt like we have had a connection. Whenever we both used to get really drunk we hooked up. We have stopped this and said we would never do it again and since then become ...

We like each other but are too shy to express ourselves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - a girl likes me and i like her but we havnt been able to express our selves. i am too shy what do i do?...

I am getting all the communications from his friends, but little from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his ...

I have a crush and we are meant to be friends but sometimes she wont even talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Me and this girl are supposed to be friends because she said she wanted to be friends. However I am pretty sure she has a crush on me and she already knows I like her. As every time me and her walk past each other her best friend looks at me and g...

A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? t...

I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm ...

We broke up and he has a new girl, but he knows I am still in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - me and my ex broke up almost a year ago, and since then have remained really good friends, he told me that if i changed my attitude and was the girl he fell in love with again i would be hard to resist, we talk all the time (i live with him, for ...

I love a girl from afar and she just ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Ok so im new to this web and im desperate. Im 13 going on 14 in march. I have liked this girl since second grade. Now that im in 8t grade I fell everyday she keeps slipping away. Shes dating people more popular and closer to her group and doesnt ...

I love her and I just want to be with her, but how to let her know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend and i love her but want whats happiest for her and idk how to tell her i love her. i don't want to make it awkward because i know she likes me but i love her and i just wanna be with her...

A guy I dated between his prison sentences wants to go out with me again, but I don't know if I should or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for several months and he broke up with me cause he went to prison and then we dated again after he got out but he went back for 2 years and then we where friends for a while but he went back again. He wonts to go back out wit...

I'm nearly sweet sixteen and he is twenty ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - So I just met this guy about a month ago through a couple of my good girl-friends. He is really nice and is so sweet to me, which some guys aren't because Im kinda overweight. I really like him and I don't know how to show that I do without being ...

When I decided to marry my female friend, who was my friends g/f became very distant!

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12 December 2009 (M) - i utilize thus to express my feelings, in the open. i have a female friend, girl friend of one of my male friends, whom i met and introduced by her boyfriend. we developed a very good company and we were loving so much. this is a case where the term ...

I want to get back together, he wants to be casual and not rush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows ...

I have to initiate all physical contact, and even then he sometimes wont respond!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me, and we've been together for just 4 months? Thing is, he really loves me, as I can feel it. We hold hands and stuff. But, when it comes to hugging or kissing, he doesn't really like to do it in the public ...

My boyfriend says he's tired of me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls ...

My cheatin' man has eyes for my man eatin' friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - hi i am having some relationship issues here is my problem He did it again he wants to talk to her again but i fear her might fall for her again like last time and if he does i will be heart broken and i love him to death i fell in love with this ...

1 year anniversary panic!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - hello my boyfriend and i have almost made it to our 1 year anniversary and i was stressing myself over what to get him this month! what should i wear and how do i wish him ive already made a scrap book, given him a teddy bear , chocolates and sw...

Help!! Confused and Hurting. How do you know if it's love? I don't know which guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I need serious help. I have been with this guy for almost 2 years. I love him, but Im not in love with him I dont think. Hes like in love with me though. We're like best friends and he's always been perfect. But With my ex I got butterflies and I ...

Sex advice needed please!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Well im 15:) I have a bf of barely 2 weeks he is 15 too we have known each other for a long time.. We have liked each other since we met. We went out once it didn't work out but we still like each other we have had foreplay like fingering sucking ...

She's so perfect for me... I just don't find her physically attractive...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - i was in a relationship with a girl that ended about 3 years ago, it was my longest relationship and most serious, we dated for about 2 1/2yrs. I didnt think i was happy with her, i thought i could find someone better, someone with which i was more ...