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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Her parents getting divorced is ruining my chances at a relationship with her!

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7 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl now that I've liked for awhile. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and just an amzing person. We both liekd each other didn't know it until recently. So after school today she found out her parents are getting a divorce, ...

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word p...

My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like ...

How can I encourage him to admit how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I like him and he 'secretly' likes me, but we're too shy to do talk openly about our feelings. How can i encourage him to admit how he feels? we don't talk alot as it is and often avoid talking to one another! he even asks my friends question...

Why do my friends always get attention instead of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - hi aunts x, at dinner time me and my friends hang out but my friends lets call them lisa and fran always! get attention from all our male friends and it makes me feel really left out, i mean ill try to get noticed like taking my jumper off an ...

How do I change my opinion of women and relationships?

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7 December 2009 (M) - I'm 22 and single, I keep thinking about having a girlfriend but always scared to ask a girl out. I thought it was fear of rejection but then I realise that its actually because of bad experiences and from what is happening to other people. Every ...

I don't know how to date after being in a relationship for 3 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - so iam 20 years old and just broke up with my girl friend we had been going out for about 3 years. the problem is i forgot how to do all the dating stuff, any advice?...

He's always trying to use me for sex... but could it be different this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for about 4 or so years...he has always been the guy to usually want some..he's had girlfriends and such in these years but whenever they would break up he would always come talking to me again..usually wanting to hook up or ...

Sex... doggy style!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi, my new bf wants to have sex doggy style and he keeps asking me. I haven't done it like that before (it just never appealed to me and my last bf preferred other positions) but my new bf seems to really want it. I told him i didnt like that pos...

Help! I want to get married and he doesn't. He says that he doesn't believe in marriage!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - This is the first time i've done anything like this and so here goes....... I am living with my partner in a house purchased together, who I absolutely love and adore and he feels the same, this i am confident about. We have been together fo...

How could someone so polite and nice suddenly change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a man I met through a dating site, we clicked right away because we have the same goals. He treated me with respect and always sent greetings to my parents. He was actually talking about marriage after 8 days of dating. ...

This married man is bad for me but I can't get him out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, well i have been dating this guy for more than a year now. after 6 months in the relationship i found out he was married to which he said 'he was not with the wife anymore, he goes home just for the kids', I left him, he came begging ...

I left him because I thought I could walk back into his life, but he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i had dated this guy for 4years for no real reason-i was young,wanted to have fun(date other guys) but didnt want to b with him while at it.so i left him and thought i could walk back into his life becos he loved me so much...its 3yrs now and am ...

An unclosed book of love.... I need a lady's advice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I finally worked the courtage to tell her I love her and then I never heard from her ever again. It's like this book has been opened and it won't close. I've let her go but she pops up in my mind every now and then. She's the one that got away, and ...

Could he change his mind and want to see me when he's home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - been with bf since august he wanted carry on relationship while he went in army. his pass out parade soon kept begging me go, we really close and always including me in future plans for next year, also said i really do make him happy then co...

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...

Is there anyway to get him to want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - So i went out with this guy once when i was 14 and i have to admit he never left my mind sure, i dated other guys but never forgot about him. He was always there in the back of my mind. Now 17 me and him, having not seen eachother in a long time, ...

Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy at the gym like everyday for nearly 2 months now. He's really cute and I went to middle school with him, but he didn't recongnize me (thank god!) and we never had classes together or talked in middle school. I started ...

Girls - do you think this means she's falling for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I really need some sensible answers from the ladies out there as I have to be very careful how I handle this if I may be reading things correctly. My best friend is female, two years younger than me. I have always had close female friends s...

I think it's time to stop lying and fess up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - To get to the point he's 26, I'm 16. We've been [secretly] dating for over a year and out of paranoia(if that makes sense), I've never told my parents. He's my mother's best friend's son and helps my father out a lot. So there's a lot of trust g...

How do I get her to realize that I'm the right guy who can treat her the right way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Ok so here it is... I work with this girl... I've really begun to like her... she and I tend to work one double a week... And on lunch break I take her out to eat every time... We talk on lunch break about ourself and things of that nature... But we ...

How can I tell if the guy I like is bi, or gay, or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hey I'm a tad confused - i know I'm bi - but at our school people will pretend to be gay, bi, straight for jokes but i cannot tell whether the guy i like is gay or bi or straight. Today i asked him if he was a friend of Dorothy's and he said that he ...

Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys? It seems as if guys get bored with me or something. I've never been asked out on a date nor been in a committed relationship. I've heard the key to success is not to sleep with the guy on the first ...

Two men, one me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - My relationship has been rocky lately, so I met this guy whoms currently in a relationship, we talk on the phone alot, and we have met out alot, we even text each other through out the day, I love the attention that he shows me because my man use to ...

He's a Momma's boy. And Momma does NOT like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death. No one can doubt that. We've been through a lot, he's even saved me from wanting to take my own life. But theres one thing that bugs me about him. He's a Momma's Boy. And his Momma does NOT like me. I'm his first kiss ...

What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - What do you do when your partner doesn't want sex as often as you do and isn't willing to change? I am in a long term gay relationship. After a few years of being frustrated and rejected I broke it off as I couldn't take it any more. My sex dri...

How to deal with stupid boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - So, i am not a typical relationship kind of girl. i never liked having a boyfriend or being tied down by commitment. i would much prefer to be single and go out and do whatever i want whenever i want with all of my friends. ive always been proud of ...

He's been a flirt recently, and we just cuddled on a long bus ride....what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - so i am a freshman in high school, and he is senior... he has has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. well, i thought it was just him being like that. but he sat next to me on a 3 1/2 hour bus ride. and ...

How will I know if I'm 'in love' with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i'm really confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year in a half. Weve broken up about 3 times and have gotten back together. We broke up because we werent sure if we wanted to have a long distance relationship bec...

I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Ok. i like this guy.He is five years younger than me, i'm 26 next may, and he is 21 in february. I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.He asks to meet up with me alot. He once made a comment that he thinks i suit short ...

How do I nurture my needy girlfriend and show her that I love her more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been goin out for 8 months, things have been great, but now all of a sudden she says "i dont nurture her". I wait on her hand and foot when we are together, always giving her compliments as well. her ex boyfriend was ...

I like sex far m ore often than he does and this is causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I am in a long term gay relationship. Things between us are mostly good and we love each other a lot but when it comes to sex I would like a whole lot more than my partner. After a few years of struggling with this I broke up with him. I couldn't ...

Is it too soon to tell him I love him? How do I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have a few questions about my situation with my bf and love. Should I tell my bf I love him for the first time and if so, how do I go about doing it? How do I know if he truly does love me? Why hasnt he said he loves me yet? My bf who is 25...

How can I be there for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I am in a bit of a messy situation, and I do not know how to handle it. I am in love with a very close male friend. At the moment he is going through some pretty horrible emotional problems at home, with his family, and being the lovely, caring a...

How can I be less reliant on guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have currently met a new guy after a month after splitting with an old one.. however I feel already like were drifting apart. I felt the exact same with my ex as we rushed into it, without no good outcome. This time round I have waited over 2 mo...

I'd like opinions on this gift!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend has been saying that she wants a watch for a while and has said that she would treat herself to one when she gets a better job. She has an interview for a very nice job this friday and i thought if she gets it i can treat he...

I broke his heart. Help me help him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, need a bit of help. 5 months ago my ex left me and i was devasted, we had been together for a year and a half, and i found it hard to become stable as i couldnt do anything without being reminded of him and bursting into tears. W...

I want to date my dad's girlfriend's son, gosh, he's wow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my dad is dating a new girl and we went out for my birthday and i met her son who is the same age as me. i really like him and he likes me but our parents said if we were to like each other they would split witch i don't want to happen but gosh hes ...