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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does she like me more than a good friend or does she want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

16 December 2009 (?) - Okay I started dating this girl about 2 to 3 months back. She's really nice and she is very attractive. Anyway after about a month of dating she said she wasn't in the right place at the time. She just wanted to be friends and she wished we coul...

So much differenece and so much alike!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. Like a year ago I start going out with a man youngest than me,exactly half of my age. We did have so much good time and we still have it but I know we cant stay together for long because I just don't want nobody in my ...

I get teased because I don't make out with g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - everyone of my friends bugs me about not makeout with my gf when we r alone how do imake the move and then how do i makeout...

Is she leading me on? Or confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hello, I recently have been hanging out with this girl on whom I am very interested in. She flirts with me constantly (touches me, playfully slaps me, she even sort of bit my shoulder). She gives me her number at work and I told her I'll call he...

No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I ...

Best Friend is blowing hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anym...

I fight to get my anger out now he has walked away!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so i just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, we are very very serious, we've already discussed marriage.The problem with me is that i fight to get my anger out. We have been fighting for over a week now, everyday. It is always my fault and i ...

My unemployed b/f has anger issues, and I want to confront him about them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't work and has a bad temper; how do I confront him about this without him breaking up with me?...

We were going great guns but now she has cooled off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Ok, i am 25 male and the girl i met this 20 yr old girl about a month ago rite before leaving school for the thanksgiving holidays. We share a muttual freind which is also a girl. the first time we met we talked at my apt for a couple hours and...

Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our ...

We spend way too much time together... I don't know if I love him any more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend lives with my parents and I. Well they hate him and think I can do way way better, I'm so confused and don't know what to do. We spend way too much time together and I'm not so sure if I still love him. What do I do??...

My relationship is falling apart. Is there any way to save it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years now, and so far it's been amazing. It's a very healthy relationship, we have good communication and are very close... but lately, in the last few months, things are beginning to fall apart and I don't ...

I need guy help - it seems like our relationship is starting to be based on sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for eight months now and things have been a little shaky. i told him that i was keeping my virginity until marriage before we even went out and all this time i've kept it. the thing is every time i come over ...

How can I feel like a martyr because my married lover makes me feel misled and used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am very confused and I need your advices. I am with an online relationship for 3 yrs, and I met a senior married man of 65 and I am 34 separated woman. I know it is wrong to involve myself to a married man but I just couldnt r...

Is it worth pursuing a relationhsip knowing it can't be sexual unless we're married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over 2 months now. When we first began seeing each other, it was already understood about his standpoint with God. His faith is strong and he furthers his relationship with Him everyday. I respect that. ...

My boyrfriend is treating me to a vacation in Firenze after which I'll be on vacation for 3 weeks with another man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: Please do not post identifying information about yourself] My boyfriend will bring me for a 10 days holiday in Firenze and he will pay everything for me. But at the end of the holiday I will tell him that I booked a flight for a 3 ...

I'm a born again Christian. How to prevent the relationship while keeping the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a ...

Am I wrong for not wanting my 22 year old daugther to bring boys home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Im a 49 year old divorcee and have a boyfriend. We get on well and my 22 year-old daughter also accepts him. My daughter never has a boyfriend until recently she starts asking a boy at work out for a drink. She said they are just friends he is ...

How do I give him subtle hints that I like him without putting myself out there too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for 25 years and we have gotten close in the last two years. We talk everyday all day on email, facebook and text. I know everything about him... as a friend. Six months ago we crossed that friendship line and have slept ...

I'm worried I'm getting too much sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hello dear eaders, well i'm 22 and my GF is 19, we are together 5 months.We have sex 2-4 times per day each 2-3 days.And i didn't look at the watch, but maybe 1 sex act is like 40-50 minutes...so i wanted to ask is it normal? or it's addiction.We ...

I really want this relationship to work but I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been dating a boy that i love with all my heart for 1 year and 7 month. I am not going to go off saying hes completely horrible because i dont think he is. sometime he is very sweet and caring. I met him second year of college and i left ...

How can I tell if I'm going to be a girl he wants to settle down with, or a girl he just wants to use for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay so I been talkin to this guy for like 3 weeks now and I am really likein him a lot. I have never met him before I was wondering if us talkin sexual to each other will ruin anything between us? Because I wanna take things slow between us and ...

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hi Aunties! How are you? It's been a while since I've been on here, a lot has happened since last time I came on here. I broke up with the boyfriend that had me dazed and confused. But moving on to my question. I have been single for probably ...

My b/f's party animal mate is back in town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His ...

The most amazing man is my boyfriend but I worry that I might lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, This might be a bit silly, but I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and everything is AMAZING... He's sweet, kind, caring and everything is great. We broke up once unexpectedly, because he wa...

I've been dumped, but am unsure if I should leave the door open for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months. He said he didn't feel the same way about me that he did when he first got together with me, and he thinks the relationship is pretty much doomed. He told me he wants to think about things and call me ...

I can't maintain my "oomph"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Ok, serious problem, I have finally met the girl of my dreams and we really have a future together, But there is a problem i am having with her that i have NEVER had with another girl. When we are going to have sex, i get very hard and really turned ...

I said "no way! no more! so he blocked me on myspace, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - We've Ben together for 9 months, kinda off and on. We got back together Sunday night and I thought everythin was fine now. We talked about life and kids ad marriage and then bam! Last night I find iut he's cheating on me.. For 3 weeks with this girl ...

Coin flip time, which girl will win me, A or B?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - 2 girls... girl A i have liked for a long time(5years), but she was in a relationship which has been broken off which she has a kid from, which is 1 year old.the father is a loser who doesnt help out and who there is constantly problems with. S...

I have a Christmas Gift Conundrum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I know, I know - how can I expect someone who hasn't met him to have more of an idea of what I can get my boyfriend for Christmas than I do? I'm willing to try it just in case because I'm getting desperate. One of his friends told me how much he has ...

I called it quits but now want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...

After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...

I want to learn how to take the initiative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (?) - How can I be more assertive with my boyfriend? We have been dating for two years and whenever we do spend time together he is all over me and it's great. I want to be able to return the favor. He tries to get me in the mood, and I can but then stop ...

He tells me how lucky he is, he tells me how perfect I am, he tells me his life is complete with me in it, but he hasn't said he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he's an amazing guy. He's told me how lucky he is to have me, that to him I'm perfect and that he couldn't imagine his life without me in it. The other day we were talking and he said that he can imag...

Is he playing head games because he's afraid of getting hurt?

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16 December 2009 (F) - This guy knows I like him, and since fall qtr started he's been showing interest towards me and I felt it getting stronger but something happened and I'm not sure what I did wrong..because he stopped and started to kind of ignore me, he might have ...

What's going on with this girl?

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16 December 2009 (M) - so Im confused of what actually is goin on here. im goin to try to explain this the best I can. at the place I work this girl started about a couple months ago. we became pretty much immediate friends. she has a boyfriend. we got pretty close over ...

Who should I believe, my dream guy or everyone else?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. ...

We're 13 and this is our first Christmas together. How can I make it special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - deck the hall with bells of holly fa la la la la la la la la. im 13 and it my first Christmas with my girlfriend. how should i show her my love?...