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writes:They say that when a woman loses her virginity to a man she becomes clingy. Is this true in all cases?In addition what are the other signs that a woman is truly a virgin, one pattern I have noticed is her behavior to make elaborate fantasies with her boyfriend of marriage and children etc n etc, are there any other? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): dude,, you don't know women at all.
The only "pattern" is there is NO "pattern".
Women are all different and may or may not form bonds. Some are capable of sex without any emotional attachment,, and many are not.
Don't know who this "they" are but quit listening to them. They don't know anything about women either.
If you're just wanting a F.B. you are going to have to find a women who wants the same, and won't allow herself to be come "clingly". And, you need to discuss that with whoever she may be right in the begining.
Either that or start "renting" a f.b.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (30 December 2009):
Your gonna have to look for a good female opinion on this one. Though I can say in my experience women are more clingy to the man they lose their virginity to. Although overall women are generally more emotionally attached after sleeping with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): i agree with cg. And you really cant generalize women...thats like saying do all guys dump a girl after they take their virginity? Of course not! A player is a player is a player. Clingy is clingy is clingy. The situation just brings it into the spotlight. :) mal
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 December 2009):
All women have ideas and fantasies about their boyfriends and marriage and children, it's not just virgins. And they don't really suddenly become clingy either. If a woman's clingy, he's not because she's a virgin, it's because she's insecure. Hope that helps a bit.
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