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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Dating a girl but more interested in her mom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (M) - I have been going out with a girl just recently but i seem to be more in love with her mom fantasising about her whenever i get the chance... if i dump my girl i won't get to see her mom ever so what can i do HELP......

I'm ready to settle down and be comitted but I don't think he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - im 27 yrs old and im dating a man but he is only 23 and we been together for 6mos now.My question is this he is in schoool and he does work but he does not have quality time for me and im ready to settle down and be commited and i dont know if hes ...

Do women prefer leaner guys?

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20 December 2009 (M) - just wondered if women like big muscualar lean guys, like body builder type guys or prefer the slimmer skinny build? i ask this as i dont get much attention from women and im hoping to slim down from 225 to 205 lbs. im a muscular guy and thought ...

What should I do? He is happy doing nothing.

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20 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and we are great together. But lately things have been a little dull. He spends a lot of time on the couch he only watches television and zones right out or he plays video games. This happens ...

Holiday "Romance" Help Please

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20 December 2009 (F) - Holiday Advice Please!!!! I have just returned from a lovely cruise (alone) and on the dinner table was a nice man I could have gone for but he told me there was someone on the table he liked (it was me I know that) but he was reluctant to ask...

B/f wears very short shorts..is he showing off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend showing off? We live in Florida and the temperature is nice usually year round. My boyfriend likes to wear veryshort running shorts all the time. He has had whistles and been yelled at from females and been asked if he is wearing ...

I'm 15, he's 19, could we get in trouble with the law?

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20 December 2009 (F) - I really like this guy he is fifteen and i am nineteen. I was wondering, how would I get in trouble with the law if his parents seem cool with it and i don't do anything stupid such as getting intimate.He is very mature for his age. How would I ...

My managers are asking me out and I'm afraid I'm going to get fired because I say no

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - I would like to ask for your help to give me some piece of advice. I am working in a big company for 2 yrs now with more than 100 plus employees. I am a silent type of person and when at work I just do my job well but these past 6 months, managers...

Dating a nice guy who's been treated badly, how do I proceed & make him trust me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a little while who is the stereotypical nice guy who gets dumped on. I'm quite mad about him and let him know how I feel, but he's quite withdrawn from me alot of the time and I can tell he's scared of getting hurt. ...

Sex life is a mess, do I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - how to leave loveless and sexless,is that possible? I've been married for 6 year now,we hav 6 year girl.the first 2 year we had a very healthy relationship but 4 year was just a mess in sexcuall way,after we got married he wanted sex alway...

Her ex is in contact and it worries me

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20 December 2009 (M) - Hi My name is Victor I have been goin wit this girl for a year now and ever since her X been writin her we juss been havin problems I try to trust her ask her has she been talkin to him and she says no but when I catch her its a different story.Im ...

She's a party girl and I found messages saying I was boring

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (M) - 32 yr old male here...long story short..been with a girl 9 mo now and i love her deeply..we have been having some issues about her liking to go out alot more than i do and where we are at in our relationship. i recently found an e-mail from her to ...

His cousin raped me yet he blames me for him cheating on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - i have no idea what to call this i am so confused and have been through alot u can say from my bf. the beginning was good he treated me very good up until he found out about my past. I had kept a dark secret from him. I was raped by his cousin b...

She's sending dirty text messages and lying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (M) - What should I do? First, let me explain the entire situation. My girlfriend and I play World of Warcraft. She got me into it. Her character is a healer, which keeps the other players alive. You need to know this, to understand my reasons for aski...

Convincing my parents for a date.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - The guy I like has finally asked me out on a date. Now the only complication of things is with my parents. They're asian, so most who have asian parents are VERY strict. I'd basically have to beg for them to let me go to the mall, let alone with a ...

Ready for a relationship but no one asks me out!

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20 December 2009 (F) - I really feel like I am ready for a relationship... But no one likes me enough to ask me out. Is there anything I can do to make boys like me?...

My friends all encourage me to dump my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (M) - hi, im 16 and all my guy friends say to dump my gf (of 7 months) i love her to bits and see us together for a long time. is this because guys my age are commitment phobes? or dont we care at this age? i certainly do, but i am more mature than most ...

My Co-workers Disapprove of Our Interracial Relationship

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20 December 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a co-worker and I am very happy, except for one thing: my other co-workers question us all the time and even criticize us for one simple thing-we're an interracial couple. He is of Middle Eastern decent and I am half ...

He tells me that he wants to work it out with his new girlfriend...but he fantasizes about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, My ex boyfriend is a very confused man. Well we have been broken up for 8 months now and honestly our relationship was great. I do think he got scared of how fast things were moving. It was a very passionate relationship. Since we broke...

I wasted all my christmas money for my old boyfriend now what to do for my new one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - Okay well as everyone knows that Christmas is comming close. Only thing is I bought my ex a present and I gave Otto him to be nice and let him know I still cared blah blah but now i Llike this other guy and I have no money to spend on him cuz I ...

Did I completely blow it with him?

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20 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. My last day of college was this past tuesday. I graduated with my BA, complete siked I decided to go out for drinks with my friends. Well I didn't eat at all and i got really drunk. There was this guy there that i have had a crush on ...

Should I take the chance even though he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - I like a guy who lives in a different state than I do. We went to h.s. together and knew who each other were but never talked. About 2 weeks ago he initiated conversation with me and we have talked every day since. Only problem is, he says he ...

Should I be patient with him and wait it out?

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20 December 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for nearly two years, we work together. after about 3 months of working together, we started getting into a very intense relationship - all by email and phone as i work as a consultant in a different city. This went ...