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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can we be good together even though we are so different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I've currently been seeing my g/f for nearly 2 months and for once shes always been into me more than i have her, which is completly different for me as normally its the other way round, she isnt my 'type' at all and i worry about the fact our inte...

How do I stop negative thinking and enjoy dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - When I first meet a guy I'm really confident. But if it goes to the next level, like going on a date, I start to get insecure! I always think that there is someone better out there for him and why is he wasting time with me? The guy I'm going out on ...

22 and no experience with women, but want a g/f soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I am 22, and dont have any expierence with women. I want to find a girlfriend soon. I get nervous when I see a women I like. A prime exaple is the lady at the gym. She comes in and looks good, so naturally I want to get to know her. I tell myself t...

Do I sound like a prude for not wishing strange men crawling into my bed uninvited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Insight requested just to make sure I am not crazy. I am single and not in a terrible hurry to find anyone even though eventually I would love to. I have been hanging with a crowd of people for almost a year and everything was going ...

Dating someone I've known for 2 years and know its going to be exclusive

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28 December 2009 (M) - My situation is as follows. Ive known this girl for almost two years. She is 13 years older than me and we are great friends. She is currently going through a divorce and is in the middle of finishing it. After about 6 months of when we first ...

What does it mean in HIS eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - When a man introduces you to his childhood friends as HIS GIRL...even though we have not talked about a relationship together, but we're moving towards that; what does that mean in his eyes?...

Why has he not responded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I've had a thing for this guy for about 6-7 years and a few weeks ago he finally had me over to his place. After having 2 beers he finally told me how he felt about me and I was like wow. He felt the same way i did. He is now being weird and still ...

Family isn't nice to the guy because of his looks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - My parents are normally pretty open minded and supportive of what I do, I am 23 yrs old and have been dating Matt(25) for almost 4 months now. He is the leader singer in a band, has over come an addition as a teenager and has been clean ever since. ...

I think I'm right not meeting him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hi 6 months ago i broke up with a lady she went back to her ex boyfriend, they have since split up , she had been seeing him behind my back, i was with her only a couple of months , i had dated her before 3 years ago for 5 months and she did the ...

He likes me but he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - So, there's this boy named Nathan I like very very much. I used to go to school with him, but i transfered. It's about 4 years later. We've been talking and hanging out, a lot. It's been at least 10 times. It's not just for an hour or two, it's all ...

Husband having an affair I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I posted before but have added some more information. I'm not sure where to begin as I'm totally lost but to cut a long story short my husband and me have been having some problems over most of our marriage (we've been together for 22 years and got ...

What does a laugh mean in response to a display of affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. I'm in need of some female opinion. Will take male opinion too if you wish. Ok long story short. I have a girl for a best friend who I am very much in love with. She knows all about this and though she says she doesn't want the ...

Do girls flirt by actions rather than words?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - There's a girl in my church. She started coming to our church about 2 years ago. I see her 2-3 times a week at church, but we don't talk much apart from that. I kinda like her but haven't told her that yet. I'm 21 and a bit shy and quiet, she's...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it...

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years ...

I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel ...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I can't just get over the situation? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry to blab on but i am having some difficulties getting over this situation.. So i was on and off with this guy for about three years, our families are very close well our mothers are very good friends so he is someone that has been ar...

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her ...

I don't feel anything when I kiss or hug her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - im confused about something ...this girl is very close to me and i have broken off with her twice because of my confusion telling her that i need some time and im kind of committment phobic(which is true perhaps because im confused)....still she has ...

Did he mean to call me his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I am confused about a guy I've been seeing for a few months. Our relationship is very casual, more like friends with benefits than dating, as it's based mostly on sex. I like him more than I can admit to him, because he is very distant and often ...

How do I make him see I'm worth risking our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old girl. I'm a junior in High School and I've never been in an serious relationship, and honestly I've never been that intrested in anyone. Until a month ago. We've always been in similar circles, but we weren't friends. He's ...

Could a four or five-way relationship even work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Sh...

Could she be avoiding me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I need some help. There's this girl who i really like. She told me that she has a crush on me and i took advantage of it. She is still not my girlfriend. We have been fine these past months but i can't help to think that she's avoding me. She never ...

Why does my girlfriend talk to her friends but not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Why is my girlfriend not telling me things? She won't even tell me what is wrong. But she tells all of her friends. What do I do?...

Should I save my virginity for someone I will love the rest of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Male, 18: I'll get strait to the point, should I save my virginity for someone I will love for the rest of my life? I'm scared that I wont find someone to love and marry in my life-time because I'll be joining The Air Force after school gets over...

We flirt so why hasn't he called?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have known this guy from work almost a year. From the begining he has flirted with me, and I have flirt back. One night people from work went for drinks to celebrate someones retirement. We talked the whole time. Exchanged phone numbers and even ...

Are these signs he has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I really like this guy and he is my best friend. I really wanna know how I can tell if he likes me or not. So he told me last year that he liked me two years ago when we first met. So lately he's been flirting with me and treating me like I am ...

Should I wait and see if my feelings come back for her?

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28 December 2009 (M) - I'm studying overseas where I've met a Swedish girl (also not studying in her native country). We've known eachother for about three months. She's had a boyfriend the entire time, but he told her two months ago it was OK if we kissed because she was ...

How do I strip for him when I'm so shy about my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year! And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, w...

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, ...