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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is meeting his family a milestone in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really like to know what you guys think of my situation because I am very confused and just don't know how to figure out what to think. I'm 27 and started dating this guy who's 23 back in October. After a couple of dates (a week ...

My boyfriend greets his friends first I think he should come to me first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - in the morning i come to the place were my boyfriend stands but i get there before him so i talk to any of my friends that are there too. when he comes he goes to his friends first sometimes and then goes to me and my friend who is with me goes go ...

Should I bring it up again? I told him I liked him but no response.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone ...

How do I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I really like this guy, he is from my college, I see him in the cafeteria but other than that I don't know anything about him. He is 100% a shy person and I am kind a shy too. I've been looking at him and I think he noticed me but I'm not sure. I ...

Would asking her if she has single friends be hurtful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - there is this girl who i got her number, we hung out alot, really hit it off but a couple weeks into hanging out all the time she told me she couldnt see me anymore, only as friends......because she has a boyfriend. She has told me plenty of tim...

Do girls like it when a guy gels his hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I have a odd question, In general do girls like it better if guys gel their hair,or if they just wear it naturally? guys who gel their hair it may look neater but at the same time im not sure if girls think its a turn off because a guy spends som...

I love him but we want different things, please help?

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19 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have recently broken up after 3 years of being together. we still love each other very much and are completely attracted to each other. the problem was that we didn't actually have what i consider a real relationship. when we g...

How do I word my Christmas card to him? I want to ask him out on a date.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - "hi there, i somewhat attracted to my fitness instructor. everytime i take his class, he can't seem to take his eyes off me. i'm somewhat shy, but i do stare back at him. the problem is that he has no problem speaking to other women but when it ...

Is it normal to not want a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Is it normal not to want a bf? Or to even not be attracted to guys? I feel it not normal coz it does feel weird not to like guys...

Truly confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hey whats up im 21 years old,and have been with my girlfriend who is 18 soon to be 19 for almost 2 years. She is amazing the most perfect, sweet and caring person in the world. We liked each other for years before we finally dated . We fight alot ...

Am I falling out of love with the only guy I've ever loved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - The guy I have been crazy in love with for the past 7 months is slowly drifting out of my mind. He is everything that I have ever wanted but for some reason my feelings are getting all screwed up. When me and him first started dating I was the one ...

How am I supposed to kiss? I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - im 14 and have NEVER had a real kiss. the guy i like is finally single and if he asks me out im going to say yes, the problem is his ex was very experienced and im not. i dont know how to kiss and im so shy. i dont know what to do but i want him to ...

He has two completley different personalities!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I recently started dating this guy, I really like him, execpt he seems to have two completley different personalities! When I'm with him in person, he's shy and doesnt like to talk about our relashionship or love. He gets really awkward when I t...

He wouldn't want to be with me if he knew about my debt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - theres a guy i really like but i have a major problem i know he likes me and theres the possibility we might start dating but im very scared because my previous ex left me in serious financial trouble and although im sorting it i would be mortifie...

Nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex..not a great way to start!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I had been seeing this guy I met in a bar for a couple of months. Our relationship had been about excess, nice restaurants, drugs and wild sex (we slept together on the first night.) At first he pursued me but then it seemed like he slightly made ...

The girl I like is already taken, where can I find another like her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hello this is my first time here =) Well i am a cool guy, have friends(popular in school), good looking, and kinda profound, but Ive never had a girlfriend or had sex, last girl i tried to get, well she was 1 year older,i talked to her and all w...

Should I knock on his door or just leave well enough alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Ok, hi everyone, im kinda really wanting to do this but not sure if its going 2 work or not, I was kinda seeing this guy and we stoped talking, he didnt reply 2 any of my text messeges or answer tho phone to me, But my problam is i cant stop t...

B/f's parents are WAY TOO overprotective! How do we deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - So, here's the deal. My boyfriend's parents are way too overprotective. So much it drives me and him crazy. He's going to turn 19 in a couple of months, and yet they don't let him stay out longer than 12 am. We went to a party once and everyon...

Won't see him for over a week, hope the feelings don't change

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening? ...

2 guys interested, I only want one of them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - *Names have been changed. A friend of mine had a party last weekend. My best friend and I went together and she knew this guy who would be going, so we found him sat with a band that would be playing later on in the night. Because she was friends ...

I'm not a control freak ....... am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - ok its me again lol sorry about this!! its boy issues yet again!! homestly i havent got a clue when it comes to men! ok so heres my problem, i met my bf through friend who i were really close to and he was close to them to but i was mainly bette...

He says he isnt interested in me so how come he keeps hugging me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while ...

I want to know how to find another guy who will take things slowly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i just broke up. He was the guy i lost my virginity to, and I only had sex with him because he made me feel comfortable and didnt pressure me to do it. This was a while ago when i was younger, now i'm in college where the only ...

She's not ready for a relationship yet. Should I keep the door open or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hey there, Met this girl at work and we started seeing each other socially. I made clear to her after our second official date that I wasn't interested in being her friend and that instead, I was interested in her romantically. We kept seeing ...

Did I go too far in sending the second email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I'm going to ask your indulgence in posting this question since I had spoken of it a while back. I visit London twice a year to see family and friends. I go to a local Church of England service when there. In October I noticed a man (also ...

What do guys look for in potential girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I am 14 and a freshman in high school. I have a lot of guy and girl friends but no boyfriend and lately I have been questioning myself. Three of my closest friends recently got boyfriends and they are always talking about them. I feel so left out, ...

Am I just being paranoid or could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (?) - I think I like my close friend romantically... he's a male, I hasten to add. We attended the same college last year and spend a lot of time together when we didn't have lessons; he was little reclusive and although he associated with the popular ...

My love for him grew steadily, but sometimes I miss the feeling of wild mad passion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend but I feel that I am not in love with him. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were teenagers although we did lose touch for a few years, I am now 28 and he is 27. I was absolutely head over heels in love with my ...