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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What do I do?? I don't wanna hurt him :(?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - ive been chatting to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. hes rings me and we met up and went out last night.. hes really sweet.. he even bought me a christmas present and paid for the movie and everything.. but i think he likes me.. cos ...

What do I do...Nina or Lily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this short. I'm a teenager and I have stupid teenage love problems, but I'd really like some help. There's this girl I was in love with for a few years, Lily, she was my first everything first girlfriend, first kiss, lost my ...

She's selfish and I'm insecure and we're fighting about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I am a really unsecured person, I met this girl more than a year ago at a summer camp program and we have been together since the third week we met it has been amazing so far. We got so close together and we know each other so good but the problem ...

I'm sick of going to bars and nightclubs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Ok, i'm only 25 years old, but lately, i've been thinking that i'm really sick of going out to nightclubs and bars !. I get annoyed with loads of drunk guys trying to chat me up and dance with me, and one thing that happened recently got me kind of ...

He gets into things and then stops!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we just starting doing stuff like handjob/fingering. He initiated it by touching me first and while doing that guiding my hand to him so that we were kind of doing the stuff at the same ...

My mind wont stop saying why why why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - well.. way back in september.. i was introduced to this girl. dam i fell for her quick but she had never been with a guy before so i new i didnt have much of a chance if the other guys didnt. but then we got real close real fast and we started ...

He doesn't put forth any effort to make me happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with hi...

Nice guy that got away or Sociopathic Player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone, This is my first time writing here, but it’s the holiday season, and it has been kinda ruined by my ex. So here goes a little background info: My ex and I were first platonic friends to this date we have known each other for 7 y...

He's both great and not so great...do I stay or do I go?

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29 December 2009 (F) - Hi. My new bf is great in some ways but in other ways not so great. i just have to decide whether we are good together or whether its a destructive relationship. First off hes crazy jealous of me and other guys esp my ex, he seems kinda obsessive ...

How do I make up to my gf with actions, not just a simple sorry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my gf for 4 and a half years now. She has gone back to her home country for 2 months and will be returning in February next year. The thing is that she's hurt by my actions and wants me to make it up to her to ...

I like him but am afraid to be his girlfriend...he says he'll wait til I'm ready but he didnt....what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - me and this guy have liked eachother for almost 7 months but havnt kissed yet but sometimes he holds me and when he walks me home we hold hands, but we havnt kissed because im afraid to cause im almost 15 and he just turned 15 this october but i ...

Is he using me for sex? Friends with benefits maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Dr. Cupid, I'm in a real sticky situation. I'm seperated from my husband and i have been seeing this guy (best friend) for about 4+ months now. We see eachother 2-3 times per week. We have the best time when we are together and he did tell ...

What should I do: get over it or let him know how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - SORRY ITS SO LONG! this is the background story: okay, so over the summer my group of guy friends kind of merged with this other group of boys. i had hung out with them before but i didnt really know all of them too well. one of them (joe*) is th...

Should I be worried about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has this friend who is a girl. He has been friends with her for a long time way before he met me. The thing is she acts nice to me but you could tell its a fake nice because its over the top. Don't any of you ever get that feeling? It's ...

Can't Let an Arguement Go, Wont Fight Fair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. He has been thus far the best boyfriend I've ever had, loving, caring, always there for me. Since around September, things haven't been the same. We spent WAY too much time together...

Should I ask him to wear a condom even though we are not having intercourse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - New Year`s coming soon and my boyfriend and I will be together on one of the party in my friends house. We`re dating about 2 months and now we want to be a little more intimate. I`m not going to sleep with him cause I`m not ready for that yet but we ...

Girl texts my boyfriend at odd hours late at night. Is she more than a colleague or a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for approx. 8 months now. We belong to different cultures. He is an introvert and likes his space. He does not share a lot about his friends. I assume that is because he wants to give them their privacy. Quite ...

All he thinks about is sex, sex, sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - hi, I'm having a problem with my boyfriend.I am nearly 26 and this is the first time to fall in love, we are having some problems the first and important one is in the way we think, all he thinks of is sex and I don't think of it that much. He lived...

I want to stop thinking about him sleeping with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I need help and advice, something is playing on my mind and is detrimental to my relationship. My boyfriend has a good female friend, and they always used to flirt and I did wonder if anything was underlying. Me and my boyfriend had a month or so of ...

How can I stop being so paranoid about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - ok my boyfriend of two months made out with another girl a week before he asked me out, she's pretty,skinny and i'm well not like her lets say. i have a very low ego but put on confidence. i am going to a party where she is going to be and she is ...

I have a fantasy of the "perfect man"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I'm a bit confused at the moment, hope someone can help. I have this thing for cute, blond men and I've always dreamed of ending up with a man like that. I met one a year ago, we dated a little and I fell head over heels for him. But he said he d...

Am I living in a little world of my own? I want to have a baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Hey Cupid, I just need some advice. I will put the picture together for you.. Im 20 years old and am from and living in the UK. My boyfriend who i have been with for just over a year, is in the US Navy and living in california with work. We fly to s...

Being friends with your best friend's girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - Sorry this is so long: So my best friend dumped his old girlfriend for a new girl. In my circle of friends both of them were big parts of the group. The new girl is not very welcome in the group now and my best friend has pretty much burned bridges ...

Is it normal for me to be so afraid of his penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - So I've been seeing this boy for while now, and thing are starting to get intense, sexually. He rub me and makes me orgasm, but I'm too scared to do anything to him. I don't know what's wrong with me but every time I touch his penis I get jumpy and ...

Can I ask why he's suddenly become very consistent with the condoms or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Let's skip the safe sex talk cause, yeah I know better but anyway... I've had a friends with benefits relationship with this guy for the past 5 months. He's overall a decent and respectful guy and we used to see each other at least once a wee...

How Can I Break Them Up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - The guy I have like 4ever is dating some freshmen (we are juniors)that he only met a week ago, its obvious hes rebounding from his last gf cause they only broke up a month ago. I stayed out of his last relationship and let it take its course but ...

Trapped! What do I do about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, I went to my friend's church. I met a guy there. Let's call him Bob. He gave me his number after the service and ever since We've been talking. At first, things went great. He is such a sweetheart. Always calling me cute ...

How to ask her out without ruining our future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - Alright my best friend and i ahve been friends for a while now and i have recently fallen in love with her. She knows that i love her, because i tell her all the time. I cant stop thinking about her and even when i sleep i literally dreams about ...

At first I found him rather repulsive but now I like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Well there was this guy that I used to find repulsive but he started to change his attitude and I became attracted to him. We started to have some kind of connection but there was one problem there was a girl he was already hanging out with only ...

We're in love but my mom and his dad doesn't like us going out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

29 December 2009 (?) - Ok, so Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a very long time now, and we fell in love, I love him soooooooooo much, he's everything Ive ever wanted and Id rather die than live without him. But my mom HATES him! Idk why, she just does, and she ...

The perfect relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months now....and well were perfect for each other. I mean we both make each other feel good about ourselves, for example I am kinda fat and she is too but i tell her she is beauitful everyday cause I think so, ...

What does it mean when someone says this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - ..what doess it mean if someone says that they dnt ever want to lose you,and they will never hurt you,and when they say" i love you with all my heart"and when they say"we have a special bond"..and when they say"they will never leave you"...

He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??...

Sputtering idiot when it comes to goodlooking guys...HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Hello Can anyone offer any advice or in the same boat? I have a confidence problem that is really starting to annoy me now, as I think it is jeopordising my chances at relationships!! Ok it's not a problem with friends/work colleagu...