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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's married but we love each other, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Ive just recently started a new job. Me and the manager being very close he knows everything about me and my history of abuse and current abusive situation with my family. It was agreed during holidays i would come work for him to get some extra ...

I'm dating a 50 year old man and my parents don't understand.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - need your advice. my parents have recently found out that i'm going out with a 50 yr old (and have been for a year). i love him dearly and can't imagine life without him by my side. my parents are devastated, the last thing i want to do was hurt ...

Both my friend and I fancy him, but he sends mixed messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Well tbh I need some advice. Basically what is going on is that I have liked this boy since I first started secondary school with him and he asked me out frequently over the years but I always turned him down because I thought I would only get my ...

Met a new guy, he's really respectful but I have no idea where this is headed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I went out with John*[Mod: Name changed to protect Identity], a guy who is a yr older than me on Saturday night. We worked together in the summer. He picked me up which was very cute. He mentioned that my hair cut was cute! I was impressed that he ...

My boyfriend makes me wear very revealing outfits all the time, is this right? If not how can I make him stop this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend insists on me wearing very skimpy clothing even in the winter time. I live in Toledo, so it is cold down here! He has made me wear very short skirts and dresses, with little boots,it does look cute but not for every place we go. I am in ...

He says he doesn't like me but everyone else thinks he does. How can I get him to admit it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - ok this guy says he doesnt like me but my friends and i arent crazy we see how he looks at me and he stares and smiles, and he talks to me all the time. Why cant he admit to it and plz tell me wat i can do in order to make him admit faster tht he ...

They say he bad mouths me behind my back, but to my face he's lovely, what's going on!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - ok well i like this guy alot and people say he talks behind my back about me negativly, but every time i confront him he rejects it 100%. i sometimes see him look at me from the corner of his eye. i want to talk to him about a relationship but hes ...

He's not contacting me as often, did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I finally got to go on the date with the guy I like. I think I bored him a bit but otherwise, it went well and we really clicked, (in my opinion.) He held my hand, hugged me, acted really sweet. But introduced me as a friend. I guess that was ...

My girlfriend gives horrible oral, but is more than happy to give it, how can I make her better at it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I'm with a girl who I love a lot, and things are fantastic... to a point. When I give her oral sex, she loves it, moaning and grabbing and clawing... all the things I could imagine are good signs. But when she goes down on me (she is very willing to ...

Is she just being really friendly or does she like me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - A few months back I met this girl, at the fitness club, in the pool. We had seen each other a couple of times there as we are pretty regular swimmers but never talked to each other. Finally one day we did and started talking to each other. After a ...

Is it normal to fantasize about people other than your partner during sex/masturbation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - How often do you masturbate to thoughts of people that are not your girlfriend/boyfriend and when does this become abnormal? Is it normal to fantasize about other people when you are having sex with your bf?...

2 week holiday fling was so special I want to emigrate to be with her, what do you guys think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I have just come back from a wonderful 3 week holiday in New zealand, where i had an amazing fling of 2 weeks with an amazing girl( a friend of a friend) I am now back in UK but she is talking about me moving out to NZ, getting a job, be together...

I did nothing while we were on a break, but now he says it's over because he thinks I cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up on Saturday over a heated argument, he went out that night and mingled with other females and enjoyed hiself according to my friends. He also reactivated his facebook account, which is something that we got rid of because ...

I have a crush on my married teacher, I told him and he blew me off! What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Hi every one, I really need help a very serious help. My story is different. I fell in love with a teacher in my college for a year.It's really diffcult to write what I've through ,but i will give it a try. At first, It started as a normal thin...

My wife has no problem exposing herself to others, is this normal behaviour?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - this is about a strange behavior of my wife. she is 25. i see that she has a tendency to exhibit. she rarely cares about her dress. whenever somebody comes to our home they have a very explicit view of her assets and other parts. i tlaked to her a...

Couldn't be with the one I love now I've met someone new. How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - HI I am in love with a girl we want to get marry also but her parents was against our relationship and now the girl whom i love is not ready to go against her parents she will mrry to the guy where her parents will tell there is one girl whom i like ...

I'm playing hard to get and it seems to beworking, where do I go from here?

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23 December 2009 (F) - Here's the situation - this guy I have know for over a year. Works at his family business. When i first met I thought too handsome, must live with someone. Got friendly with his sister as they both work p/t in family hairdressers. F...

I've had genital warts, what do I say if she says she's on the pill?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - i want to have sex with someone but i have had genital warts before. its advised that i should wear a condom all the time, but what if she says 'im on the pill its fine you dont have to wear one?' i dont want to tell her ive had the warts before. ...

Parents wouldn't approve of my young relationship, how do I keep it from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - [Mod Note: Stated age incorrect, OP is 13 years old] Ok so I liked this girl and she asked me out at a party and I said yes. We're now going out and I am really happy. The one problem, were 13, and if my parents find out, I will get in a lot of t...

Ex-Professor and I, have grown quite close. Are these signs that he is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my ...

11 year age gap plus baggage, can this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Me and this guy met on a dating site,started chatting and exchanged numbers.We decided to meet.Im 20 and he is 31.When he saw me he said I was perfect and I liked his very genuine sweet personality and he was quite good looking,after meeting up a ...

Should I go back to dating black men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I am trying to date to try to get over my last relationship.. I know that they say finish a chapter before you start another, but I say the only way to get over the last one is to have sex with a new one. Anyway, I am an interracial dater and it i...

My new boyfriend is great, but I'm worried about my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I am stuck in the middle of a real dilemma and it's tearing me apart on the inside. This year my boyfriend (now ex-) of 2.5 years and I both went off to college. During my first week there, I met this incredible guy. We started talking and we both ...

My boyfriend is 10 years older, and my male friend called him a cradle robber!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to ...