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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She referred to me as a work friend, but I think she wants more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I met a woman at a work conference a few months ago. After the programming, we talked in the hotel bar for several hours before calling it a night and parting ways. Other conference attendees came and went. The discussion covered a lot of ground ...

Am I being sought for emotional attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure whether anyone can help me on here, but, I thought I'd give it a try. This is going to be pretty long, as it's so complicated, but I would really appreciate help. So where to start? I've known this guy, let's just call him "C",...

Why is my dad acting so protective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I graduate this month and I turn 18 in July. I don't plan on staying in town when I go to college and my boyfriend doesn't want me to be alone (good thing too). So I told my father and he flipped saying "not while he [my father] is still around." ...

I feel like I'm not enough for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for the past 8 months. When we first started dating he would always ask for a threesome with another girl (a complete stranger that we didn't know), but i always said no. I even threatened to leave him for the other girl IF ...

What do I do and how do I get through this week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months... it's going well, but when we met she was kind of involved in this long distance relationship with some other guy. She was very hesitant to get too involved with me due to that fact but a couple weeks ...

Busy, or not interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a dr). I met this guy through friends and we really hit it off when he joined a group of us on a night out. As soon as I got home that night my friends were all calling tell...

My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty. I know this is probably over reacting but i got very upset by this, he always told me he never even looks at girls and i can't stand that he would look at a girl and think about how pretty she ...

Is there a problem with us or am I just over analyzing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - My gf and i have been dating for a year and a half now.We only see each other weekends bcoz i work and she also recently started working and she has a 2year old child to attend to,which i have no problem with.The thing is we usually see each ...

Drifting Apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - i have been in a relationship for just over three months now, and it seems that in the last few days we are drifting apart... in the beggining of the relationship things started off quite quickly, and then immediately slowed almost to a halt. there ...

How do I help my friend forget her love from 2 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hi a very good friend of mine had a crush with a guy 2 years back. He also liked her but he was new in school and didnt know other girls. They both had silent love for a month then he started ignoring her. After time he told another girl that he ...

I'm not sure I feel the same way I once felt about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months now. he's one of the few good guys left in the world. he's sweet, nice, and caring. but the only problem is he doesnt go to the same school i do and he doesnt live near me. ...

Did I ruin my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so it's kind of a long and confusing story, but I'll try my best to explain it. Last April, I started seeing a new guy that I really really liked. Throughout the ENTIRE time that we were together my ex boyfriend that I dated for two years was ...

Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know about the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - i am in love with this girl who studies in my college but in different course ,she too seems to interested in me as she gives hints whenever we talk or while talking to her friends,whenever we are in sight of each other but little away we both keep ...

He is still loving but the texting and calling came to such an abrupt stop! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - There's probably no way I can post this question without you thinking I'm insecure or irrational. I don't consider myself to be either, in relationships I definately like my space and the biggest problem I have come up against is ex's not giving ...

I feel like crying because I feel nothing is going to happen between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (?) - Hey, So I like this guy in my class. He's just a friend, but suddenly I've developed feelings for him. I really like him, but i don't know why I like him This much... is it because he's playing hard to get (unintentionally) or I genuinely really l...

I am unsure about how he feels towards me as he is nice to all girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I think I like this guy but I am not sure if he likes me? We are going to a holiday trip with one couple and another girl who is single plus the me and the guy I like. And I am really very excited about it! However, I am unsure about how he feels ...

How can I ask her out without it being weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Last summer was my last term at university and during that time I met a girl in one of my classes who I kind of ended up having feelings for but never made a move. She's still in school and I'm not so I don't see her anymore and the ...

I really want to go stay with him but he is being different with me and not replying to my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Why is he being off with me? Basically theres a guy i met on holiday, we speak everyday, we like each other. He lives 2 hours away, im going uni next year in the city he lives in. We've always spoke loads, saying how much we cant wait to ...

How does hypnosis "fractionation" work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - How EXACTLY does the hypnosis "fractionation" work? How exactly could you seduce a girl with it? What are some examples of this type of seduction? ...

First date in 3 years...why am I so paranoid about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, ok so I'm in a pickle and I have to solve it by tonight, which unfortunately doesn't leave me much time. From May til November I was constantly trying to be rid of my ex-bf. He was verbally abusive, lied about everything and I was si...

He says he needs some space, and I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently decided that we both need space together. He says we rushed into a lot of things. We are both 18 and have been together for a year and almost two months. We've been best friends for about four years. After a while,...

I am hoping he will change his mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I started dating a guy who admitted from the beginning that he wasnt ready for a committed relationship with a single mother. We thought we could see each other and find a middle ground. Recently he decided that he didnt think us seeing each other ...

She left him for me, will we end up happy ever after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Alright so I'll try not to write too much, but I'm sure it'll happen anyways. Try to keep up with the story and I'll do my best not to confuse you. Those of you who don't care to answer, you might find our story quite interesting, I believe it to be ...

I can't tell if he is a keeper or just playing games

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - hello all, id like to know if there is a way you can tell if your man loves you or if your a "bootycall" with his actions in the bedroom apart from the obvious lol? eg do you feel a connection, do you just know because im confuse why so many girls ...

My ex told my current that she is pregnant, but I think she is just creating mischief

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship with a girl and my ex had told em she was pregnant with my child so i told my partner at the time of this but she had asked me not tot tell her or i would not see the child, my girlfriend at the time left me as she didnt want ...

I am on an emotional roller coaster and I don't know where my life is headed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - so i sat down tonight and started thinking..what am i gonna do with the rest of my life? and all i came up with was-i dont want to go to school the rest of my days and go to college and learn to do something i dont even want to do but at the same ...

I don't think my boyfriend likes me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of friends that don't like me. But in the beginning of the relationship he did not care. Now he calls me names, he wont make love to me, he doesn't even kiss me any more. And every time I try to have a conversation with him ...

My girl is ill but the doctors can't find anything wrong!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I am worried about my girlfriend. The past couple of weeks she has had a very high fever. I took her to doctor but he just gave her antibiotics, this happened with three different doctors. She refuses to eat, saying the taste burns her mouth. At ...

He wants to wait but I want him now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Im 15 and a 26 year old likes me and i like him he say he'll wait till im 18 i want him now tho what should i do?...

My boyfriend is a yoyo, here, gone, here, gone, will he be back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Well basically, I was with my boyfriend for over 8 months... my first proper relationship. He dumped me on Thursday, saying that 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend right now.' Yep, I know what you're thinking, anot...

He wont talk so I don't know where I stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I've been dating a guy for the last 4 months, and within the last month or so he's been mentioning how he'd like to see me more often (we usually see each other once or twice a week). Last week after we went out I msged him when I got home...

My guy prefers his male friends company to mine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my bf after realizing hes too attached to his friends that he decided to NOT communicate with me for 4 days straight and it was right after my bday to top it off, he didnt get me anything, not even a rose. I called 2 nights a...

I'm doing all the chasing, but can't quite catch him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - ok so i met this guy about a month ago at a college bar. i was dancing with my friends and he caught my attention as he was dancing with his friends so i popped a piece of gum in my mouth and approached him we started talking/dancing for about 10 ...

He spends more time with his male friends than he does with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Is it normal for your boyfriend to hang out with his friends 3 times a week after work without you? I know guys need time out with the boys alone sometimes but is 3 times a week to much? He only see's me twice a week on his days off. Thanks for any ...

I am getting mixed signals, and I don't know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Recently me and a girl who i got on fairly well with in the past, have got on like a house on fire. For some days we are even unseparable, well one day we literally were! As we were tied to each other by the arm so obviously we were very close that ...

I have a boyfriend but hanker after somebody else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I like two guys. One of them is my boyfriend... one is not. The other one has the best conversations with me ever, while my boyfriend will not call me on the phone and rarely has much to say. However, he is such a sweetheart and I can't stand to ...

My real life version of "Bend It Like Beckham!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Okay, any of you guys watched bend it like beckham? well my situations sort of like that (apart from the football) im an indian girl and i do what i want, only rule is dont fall for anyone who isnt indian! well i have broken this rule, i have ...

Men's Opinion Wanted! Advice on how to blow his mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is coming back after being gone almost a month. I'd like to suprise him by doing something that will totally blow his mind! I'm in desperate need of a mans opinion! What is it you've always wanted your girl to do for you? I need sexy, ...

We broke up when he wouldn't commit. Now he's back, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I need advice how to handle a situation. I dated a man for 2 1/2 years, he is smart, kind, loyal successful. We are both in our mid forties. I was the first women he ever fell for. He was used to being alone and took things very slow. As the thir...

He met my parents and then he dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - i'm 31 y-o woman, jobless and just got dumped by a divorcee who was an old buddy of me. the relationship went well until he came home to meet my parents, things really changed after that. after a couple of arguing, he changed his mind of getting ...

My girlfirend admitted to cheating and I don't know what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend Cheated on me and i seeing the circumstances I don't know if I should take her back. We are both in love and have talked about getting married and had some details planned out. we talked about our kids and how we would want to raise th...