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Am I stupid for wanting to feel loved?

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Question - (17 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

this may sound bad but i need help im 13 and i just broke up with this amazing guy now i kinda feel like a slut since him ive just been askin guys out and been turned down not because im ugly but cause they really dont know me now i kinda asked out this guy who is totally not my type he is a perve and a fuck-aholic the reason i asked him out is cause he likes me and i wanted to feel loved am i stupid for that?

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A female reader, Alice Wonders Thailand +, writes (18 December 2009):

Alice Wonders agony auntAt 13 I doubt you truly understand love. Just take it easy!

Anyone wants to be loved, is normal. However, what makes us better is giving love, without asking it in return. Try this, you'll feel better

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A female reader, Beyoncefan01 United States +, writes (18 December 2009):

Your not stupid but you should never be with someone you dont really like! Even though your being loved dont you think that the person wants to be loved too? What if it was the other way around? Would you want someone that you really like to be with you even though they dont really like you. And then when they really find someone that they like then there gonna leave you for them! How would you feel if that happend to you? You should really think about that!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2009):

Nah, you're just young and silly.

We've ALL done stuff with stupid pervy guys and regretted it afterwards.

That attention is one of the best feelings you can get.

But the biggest and best lesson you can learn early on is that it's NEVER EVER worth giving into.

Dump this guy because if you let him get his hands on you then you'll feel dirty afterwards.

Good Luck!! xx

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