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anonymous
writes:I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to hear. The problem is, I have another girl who is great fantastic loves me misses me wants only me. The problem is I love my ex.Now, I am single and my ex keeps telling me she loves me and only wants to be friends. I love her and always wanted to be with her. I know this "friends only" thing means another guy is tempting her. The other girl keeps telling me she wants to be with me. But I love my ex.
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reader, lovelife1437 +, writes (18 December 2009):
Ask your ex if she would give your love another chance. If yes, then give your love another chance. If no, give the other girl a chance and see where it goes because you'll know unless you try. Life is about trial and error and learning from them to make you a better person. If your ex only comes to you when she's not dating, then that's the pattern as you know the outcome. It might hurt to hear but it's a good idea to let your ex do as she desires and for you to try to at least try dating again. Until marriage comes into play, allow each other to date and satisfy the mind/body so when it comes to the big commitment such as marriage then hopefully the soul is at peace to become soul mates without conflicted thoughts. Good Luck! :-)
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reader, LUFC  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 okay, your ex is saying shes in love with you etc but yet only wants to be friends? Is this not too different pieces of information?
She is obviously not IN LOVE with you if she keeps going on dates with other men. She is only coming running back to you because she knows how you feel and is using you to her advantage because she knows she can walk all over you.
You need to give her an ultimatum, ask her once and for all if she wants a relationship of not MOVE ON,
simple.
Sorry if this seems harsh, but in relaity; the truth hurts.
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reader, Garm +, writes (18 December 2009):
Stay away from both until your head clears up. The ex is playing you. The other girl is a rebound. Neither are healthy relationships and both will ultimately result in massive stress and heartbreak for someone.
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